Comments on: How do you get out of an abusive relationship? http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS, YOU WILL BE OKAY, AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:13:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: MiaDiva28 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-6228 MiaDiva28 Mon, 12 Apr 2010 17:49:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship#comment-6228 Just leave. Take all your stuff and find help. There are places that will help you. Dont stay there because you are pregnant.<br><b>References : </b><br> Just leave. Take all your stuff and find help. There are places that will help you. Dont stay there because you are pregnant.
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]]> By: clearancejoe http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-6227 clearancejoe Mon, 12 Apr 2010 17:32:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship#comment-6227 I am truely sorry that you are a victim of abuse, you need however to stop the abuse by leaving, try to leave while he is away at work. The longer you stay, the more risk you expose to your baby and yourself. Go to this link for additional information. I know that you have the strength to leave, leave if not for your sake, but for your child's sake. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/domestic-violence Where to find help No one deserves to be abused. If you think you may be in an abusive situation, seek help or advice as soon as you safely can. There are many resources available to help you. The first step to getting out of an abusive situation may be as easy as making one phone call. In an emergency situation, call 911, your local emergency number or your local law enforcement agency. If you aren't in immediate danger, the following resources can help: National Domestic Violence Hotline: (800) 799-SAFE, or (800) 799-7233. Provides crisis intervention and referrals to in-state or out-of-state resources, such as women's shelters or crisis centers. Your doctor or hospital emergency room. Treats any injuries and refers you to safe housing and other local resources. Local women's shelter or crisis center. Typically provides 24-hour, emergency shelter for you and your children, advice on legal matters, advocacy and support services, and evaluation and monitoring of abusers. Some shelters have staff members who speak multiple languages. Counseling or mental health center. Most communities have agencies that provide individual counseling and support groups to women in abusive relationships. Be wary of advice to seek couples or marriage counseling. This isn't appropriate for resolving problems of violence in intimate relationships. Local court. Your district court can help you obtain a court order, which legally mandates the abuser stay away from you or face arrest. These are typically called orders for protection or restraining orders. Advocates are available in many communities to help you complete the paperwork and guide you through the court process. Books and online resources. Learning more about how to cope with your situation and communicating with others who understand what you're going through can help you make strong choices. MORE ON THIS TOPIC Elder abuse: Signs to look for, action to take Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) RELATED MayoClinic.com Bookstore 'The Mayo Clinic Plan for Healthy Aging' (Hardcover) Web Resources National Domestic Violence Hotline Department of Justice: Domestic Violence National Coalition Against Domestic Violence ARTICLE TOOLS Print E-mail this Larger type By Mayo Clinic Staff May 23, 2007 © 1998-2007 Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research (MFMER). All rights reserved. A single copy of these materials may be reprinted for noncommercial personal use only. "Mayo," "Mayo Clinic," "MayoClinic.com," "EmbodyHealth," "Reliable tools for healthier lives," "Enhance your life," and the triple-shield Mayo Clinic logo are trademarks of Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research. WO00044 About this site ·Site help ·Contact us ·e-Newsletter ·Site map Privacy policy updated Oct 4, 2006 Terms and conditions of use updated Jun 25, 2007<br><b>References : </b><br>http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/domestic-violence/WO00044 I am truely sorry that you are a victim of abuse, you need however to stop the abuse by leaving, try to leave while he is away at work. The longer you stay, the more risk you expose to your baby and yourself. Go to this link for additional information.

I know that you have the strength to leave, leave if not for your sake, but for your child’s sake.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/domestic-violence

Where to find help
No one deserves to be abused. If you think you may be in an abusive situation, seek help or advice as soon as you safely can. There are many resources available to help you. The first step to getting out of an abusive situation may be as easy as making one phone call. In an emergency situation, call 911, your local emergency number or your local law enforcement agency. If you aren’t in immediate danger, the following resources can help:

National Domestic Violence Hotline: (800) 799-SAFE, or (800) 799-7233. Provides crisis intervention and referrals to in-state or out-of-state resources, such as women’s shelters or crisis centers.
Your doctor or hospital emergency room. Treats any injuries and refers you to safe housing and other local resources.
Local women’s shelter or crisis center. Typically provides 24-hour, emergency shelter for you and your children, advice on legal matters, advocacy and support services, and evaluation and monitoring of abusers. Some shelters have staff members who speak multiple languages.
Counseling or mental health center. Most communities have agencies that provide individual counseling and support groups to women in abusive relationships. Be wary of advice to seek couples or marriage counseling. This isn’t appropriate for resolving problems of violence in intimate relationships.
Local court. Your district court can help you obtain a court order, which legally mandates the abuser stay away from you or face arrest. These are typically called orders for protection or restraining orders. Advocates are available in many communities to help you complete the paperwork and guide you through the court process.
Books and online resources. Learning more about how to cope with your situation and communicating with others who understand what you’re going through can help you make strong choices.

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]]> By: Nwambe Zimbala http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-6226 Nwambe Zimbala Mon, 12 Apr 2010 17:06:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship#comment-6226 You need to wait until he isnt home..be nice to him until then..and when he leaves you can then pack a bag and get out of there cause if you don't..let me tell you..there are stories like this all over the news..he really do not care for you or the child..babies are cute when they are little but in time..the way he treats you..he will treat your kid..the names he call you..the abuse..he will do it to your child and the scars will be permanent..and can ruin your lives...go to a hospital anywhere and let me tell you..(if you do it thru the court systems...that man you think cares so much about you, his seat will be empty) think about what I just said cause I been there..done that<br><b>References : </b><br> You need to wait until he isnt home..be nice to him until then..and when he leaves you can then pack a bag and get out of there cause if you don’t..let me tell you..there are stories like this all over the news..he really do not care for you or the child..babies are cute when they are little but in time..the way he treats you..he will treat your kid..the names he call you..the abuse..he will do it to your child and the scars will be permanent..and can ruin your lives…go to a hospital anywhere and let me tell you..(if you do it thru the court systems…that man you think cares so much about you, his seat will be empty) think about what I just said cause I been there..done that
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]]> By: als been a dad 3 times http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-6225 als been a dad 3 times Mon, 12 Apr 2010 16:17:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship#comment-6225 first report the abuse. second go to shelter till you deliver the baby you will then be eligible for state aid with almost everything you need. life is too short to be getting beat up and yelled at all the time this guy is a jerk , you need to get away from him ASAP<br><b>References : </b><br>life first report the abuse. second go to shelter till you deliver the baby you will then be eligible for state aid with almost everything you need. life is too short to be getting beat up and yelled at all the time this guy is a jerk , you need to get away from him ASAP
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]]> By: Bill P http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-6224 Bill P Mon, 12 Apr 2010 15:30:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/time-to-end-the-relationship/how-do-you-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship#comment-6224 There are numerous shelters that can and will help you when you are really ready to leave. If you dont leave very soon, it could escalate into something more serious. The next step he will take is to hit you in the stomach to try to hurt the baby. Is this what you want? I am serious. You need to leave quickly. While he is at work, hide some things ata friends house or somewhere you can get to them when you leave. Most important, you have to be ready to NOT GO BACK EVER<br><b>References : </b><br> There are numerous shelters that can and will help you when you are really ready to leave. If you dont leave very soon, it could escalate into something more serious. The next step he will take is to hit you in the stomach to try to hurt the baby. Is this what you want? I am serious. You need to leave quickly. While he is at work, hide some things ata friends house or somewhere you can get to them when you leave. Most important, you have to be ready to NOT GO BACK EVER
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