Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

My husbadn left me in May of 2005 and he says he wants a divorce but we still talk to each other on a regular basis and he says it may just take time to put our family back together but at the same time he says he still wants to go through with the divorce

The big question is why he thinks the marriage can be saved and still wants a divorce. Those two things don’t fit together and are an indication that maybe he is trying to not hurt you by giving you hope that really doesn’t exist. It will be hard but the best thing you can do for the both of you is make it clear that if the divorce is to go forward then you can’t keep talking all the time and keep you thinking that things will work out. I suspect that he is already moved on and possibly seeing someone. He is trying to be a nice guy and doesn’t want to hurt you but in the end by giving you hope, that isn’t letting you move on with your life and will make it even more painful when this divorce does happen and the relationship ends.

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2 nights ago my (ex)girlfriend of a year and 3 months broke it off with me, she says that she fell out of love with me and feels like a relationship is to stressful at the moment. shes 18, soon to be 19 and i am 21.
She told me that she wants to go on a break, but its also sort of a break up, she did not specifically say how it was going to work out, but she just doesnt want to see eachother or talk for a while so she can see where she is emotionally in a while..This is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through, before her my longest relationship was 3 months. I am still completely in love with her and it just hurts so horribley, I feel like crying every single 10 minutes of the day. I feel suicidal but I am not going to kill myself, or leave my family like that.

She texted me the night after which was really suprising, she just said "hey, i dont know why i texted you but i just wanted to say hey." and I just said "okay, well i didnt text you all day or night because i am giving you your space and time that you need" and she never texted me back after that, or the whole day yesterday either.. She sent a text to my friend saying "I have to get used to not texting him, im just used to doing that every night."

Anyway I dont know how to be hopeful, I would rather look at things the worst then for the better so i dont get my hopes up. It hurts so F***** bad, and just dont understand how she could do that, I mean the signs have been there for a while and i should have relalized.
She changed all her myspace and facebook status’s to single..even though we might only be on just a break, but like i said it really does feel like a breakup because she was never specific.

I’m just wondering if it seems like i should be hopeful, just give her space and not text or call her at all and just wait and see if she will do it. Like i said this is the hardest thing I have ever been through in my life..

don’t worry about it too much. if you’re hoping for the best and driving yourself suicidal because of this, its best to just let it go.
of course its not going to be easy, and i understand, but in time you’ll see that she’s just another girl, and it’ll take some time for you to heal, but don’t worry, everything will be ok :]
my opinion is that just leave it alone for now. if she wants to come back in the relationship, then she will. relax and spend more time with friends and don’t let her get in with your happiness.

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it was a two year relationship and tehy broke up 6 months ago.Now her boyfirend wnt leave her alone.he has become obsessive and suicidal.he keeps textin her sucidal thoughts and says he loves her.i dont know what to do for her.hes threatened to keill himslef over the phone.she chnaged her number but he got ahold of it again and keeps texting her.and she cant leave him alone because she afraid hes going to kill hmslef.everyone hates him,even his friends.his family are virtually going to kick him out as soon as school finishes and all hes got is her.she says he has actually taking antidepresnats and has been seen at the hopsital.what can i do.hes made her life miserable.ruined it.she’s only 16 and look at the grief he has given her to deal with.can anyone give me some ideas of what to do ?

=[ that really is terrible
she really needs to tell him to move on, and not give him another chance, that’ll give him false hope. maybe you could get a counselor to talk to him, and tell him to move on?

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Everyone told me it was the best thing to do, and I know that, because I was not respected. However, the house is empty at night, it is scary and dark and lonely..how can I feel safe? I have friends, but I am talking about nights. I have a roommate, but she leaves on the weekends to be with her boyfriend, so I am alone in the house, we just broke up this last Thurs. Any advice appreciated

get a pet to keep you company. you’ll sleep better at night too cuz you’ll feel like the pet is watching over you.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. We are both 22 and have very strong feelings for each other. Yesterday he said he needed to leave and try to "make it" on his own. I sincerly do not want this, but it feels no matter what I do or say, he’s stuck on this decision. He still says he has very strong feelings for me, but he needs to see if this is love. I know that if we break up and go our own way, we would never be back together nor would we remain friends and he’s the best friend I’ve ever had.
He left yesterday at 5:30pm, and it’s now 10am. He won’t answer my calls, text messages and he hasn’t come home.

What should/can I do? Is there anything that can be done? I am extremely broken up over this.

I know what is going on, My GF and I have been together about 6 years…. I know that some times I feel like just getting away. Maybe that is what he is doing. Try calling him like 2 times a day. Dont bug him, just let him do his own thing. Sometimes I think, you just have to get away from the person you love to know what your missing.

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