Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

My ex and I broke up about 1 1/2 months ago. The reason: he had been feeling miserable that he hadn’t been able to say that he loved me back. (I never wanted him to say the "L word" back, and I think I may have said it prematurely; I just wanted the affectionate, goofy nerd back that I had met)

Since then, we have had some conversations. They’ve been mostly been IM’s, and I’m the one who’s been initiating the conversations. He’s responded right away and we’ve had some pretty basic conversations, nothing emotionally heavy. However, anytime he’s online, he never makes the move or effort to IM me. So recently, I’ve stopped for a few days.

I want to call him. I miss him dearly, but I won’t bombard him with messages of desperation or sadness. I just don’t know how to get the message across to him that I just want him back for what he is. (and no he’s not a horrible person. at all)

So I need some tips/advice on how to bring an ex back or even how to move on from this situation. Thanks alot.

I think you may have scared this one off…Don’t expect someone to say i love you, isn’t it better when they just say it and mean it…its not forced. Be careful, take it easy with this guy, sorry to say but i think you scared dude off and you wont get him back.

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I have question that I need some serious help on. I have a best friend who lost his ex-girlfriend to another man (not known to us). And my best friend wants him out of the picture (not anything extreme, if you know what I mean) so that he may have another chance at winning her heart again. I wont go into details of how they broke up. My best friend is 30 and his ex is 25. Any suggestions from experienced people? If you were in my best friends shoes, how would you attempt to take your rival out of the picture and woo you ex back, no matter what the circumstances of the breakup was.

I think this chick tanya harding wrote a book about this..or served jail time. no wait, that was OJ simpson, but he killed his Ex too, so that didnt work either….i dunno. sign him up for selective service?

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