Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I broke up with my boyfriend who I was with for a year and a half. I still really love him but I just don’t see myself with him anymore. Even though, I’m the one who broke up with him, I’m still depressed. I went to bed past 4 am and woke up now at 11. (not enough sleep for me) I have class at 1, 2 and 4 but I don’t want to go. I just want to stay home, order pizza and watch movies. What should I do? We’ve already been broken up for a week or two. We still talk. Last night, I called him but he wouldn’t answer the phone because he was watching a movie. Then after I went to sleep, he called me back 23 times….WTF?

Hello, I think that you may be afraid of your new found freedom. The fact that you broke up with him says that you were no longer happy in this situation. When we are in a long term relationship we tend to get accustomed to the other persons presence.When they are no longer there we become lonely.Depression usually kicks in after a break-up because we may have become afraid to be alone this usually only lasts temporarily. You have to first learn how to date youself again, Pamper yourself,remind yourself how beautiful and special you are,and how your happiness should be your top priority. You have to start to heal your heart so that you can be prepared mentally for that wonderful man that will come eventually. You don’t want to carry all the baggage from your previous situation into something that may be wonderful. The fact that the two of you still call one another may just mean that you two miss one another. It does’nt neccessarily mean that it is still love.If you truly want this to be over then maybe you should limit the phone calls to an occasional call once in a while.Remember that a man is a nice thing to have but it is not a neccesity in order to live a good life. You are obviously intelligent because you are in school don’t jeopardize your education for someone who may not be worth it. I read some where we have to ask ourselves"would I want to be with someone like me?" If the answer is no then you have some healing to do. Every break-up hurts in the beginning but time heals all wounds.Be strong and remind yourself that you want a good,stable relationship that will bring a smile to your face everyday. Love should’nt hurt. I know you will get out of that bed and go on with your wonderful life. I wish you all the luck. I know that you will make it… GET READY TO START SMILING AGAIN.

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