We broke up but we still hang out like usual. The pain is unbearable. Should I cut all the ties?
Sunday, January 17th, 2010We broke up 4 days ago under mutual agreement. Ever since then the pain was so unbearable and I find it hard to breath. I talked to my ex saying I want to see him, he agreed. Now we still see each other everyday, actually I still live in his house everyday for the past 2 days. But we are together only as friends. Before we lived together, so now when I can’t see him, I feel absolutely painful to the extent I can’t stand it. But when I live in his house and think we are no longer bf/gf, I still feel very painful although less. I don’t know how to ease the pain. Should I just be strong and cut all the ties or should I still be friends with him to make the breakup easier, but i don’t know if it can help or make it harder for me.
I’ve been in a similar situation, and trust me, the more time you spend together now, the more it will hurt and make it harder for you to recover. You need to definitely cut ties for now, and then maybe in a few months time make contact again and see how it goes. I cut ties with my ex and now it’s been much easier to move on and be happy again. Time heals all wounds.
