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How to Get Your Ex Back. The Path to Recovery. Here are some tips that may help heal the hurts.

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any (safety) tips for online dating?

Use common sense and only meet once you have exchanged enough emails to make you feel comfortable. I usually emailed for a week or two, sometimes longer, depending on the person, before I met up with anyone. I also found that its MUCH safer to use site you pay for because only those who are subscribed and only those with a subscription can email you back and forth. A subscription helps add some legitimacy to them because they need a credit card to subscribe and that creates a paper trail. Pay sites also allow you to interact without ever revealing your email address, so if you want to end it, you can right away and with no way for the other party to contact you.

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So I seem to attract plenty of guys. I’m a catch and they know it. But after a while they lose interest. I don’t know what it is. It’s not that I express that much interest that might turn them off, but maybe bc I build myself up to be such a "catch" that when they "get me" it’s game over?

Anyway, I don’t want too sound crazy, but I’d really like tips on how to keep a man interested. I just got a new boy toy recently and I’d like to spice things up.

One thing I was thinking about is being unpredictable.

Post as many tips as you can ! THank yOU!

Anne,

- Let him be the creative one and you can be the recipient who responds to his creativity.

- Stop boasting about being "a catch" and let the guys arrive to that conclusion on their own.

- Stop reffering to your new male aquatances as "a boy toy" – it makes him sound like a pinball arcade.

- Let your heart and feelings show more than your outer layers.

That ought to bring you closer to what you are really looking for.

Sincerely,

Ms. Miche ; })

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I really fell in love with my current boyfriend and was extremely happy until I discovered that he was a secret cocaine addict and had a daughter. I accepted him having a daughter (even though he lied saying that he had no children) but the cocaine just pushed it. Then last week he told me that he needed to call me and speak to me about something (long story) and right away I knew that he wasn’t going to call and I told him that I knew that he was lying. Everybody around who heard it was convinced that he was telling the truth except me.
Guess what? He didn’t call. I was meant to see him last night and I didn’t even bother turning up. I haven’t seen him for a week now and I don’t miss him, in fact I have lost respect and trust for him.
I have to see him friday at a social event. How am I going to end this? You might think that this is bad but I might now even bother ending it and just ignore him and never bother speaking to him again, even if he talks to me I just want to walk off.

Just tell him he is welcome back into you’re life when he has his own life in order. But also tell him he has lost the privilege of your trust. And that he most likely will never get it back.

(tell him this too)
Meaning, he can in no way contact you unless he has been through extensive rehab and follow up checks, and has a stable job. Tell him he has a daughter and to become a man that his daughter can respect. Tell him you will never look at him the same but that once cleaned up (with documented proof from a rehab center) he can give you a call and that with strict boundaries can then re-enter your life.

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I’m in a wonderful relationship. Being a young guy, I am aware that most relationships will end at some point due to what I’ve observed from my friends. I’m 22. Even if many relationships don’t work out, I feel they’re important because they’re great learning experiences. Often I find people, during breakups, upset because they felt they took the special time, they invested so much in, for granted. What could I do to not take this relationship for granted? Also what could I do make this relationship benefit my life, even if it doesn’t work out?

I’d say just be aware of the small things that take a lot of heart to do. Something as simple as her tying your tie or dropping you off at the airport. the little things are what people take for granted, the big things like gifts and flash never end up meaning much.

And what you can do to make the relationship benefit your life…
Become friends with your girlfriend, don’t simply be a boyfriend to her but get to know her as a person, you always take something good from that. If you really take the time to know her as more than just a girlfriend but as a woman you will be better off for it.

Good luck!!

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I just finally ended a 2 year, very rocky relationship. Any tips for moving on? We lived together so I was so used to having him around and now I feel like I don’t know what to do with myself. I need to keep busy so I don’t let him back in my life this time!

When a relationship ends in my life, good or bad, I always try to maintain this attitude:

The relationship ending is possibly the best thing that ever could have happened to me.

This does not mean I’m bitter, resentful, or regret being in the relationship.

I’ve had great relationships end simply because we both agreed we didn’t have the makings of a life long commitment.

So….if you take the attitude that the relationships end opens the door to an infinite number of things you couldn’t of had while in the relationship……

something amazing happens….

yeah, you can still miss them, be hurt, sad, etc….all the normal things that come with the end of a relationship.

But at the same time, with the above attitude….the stars begin to align, you become aware of all the new possibilities that await, and you find great joy in a variety of things you would never have known should you have stayed in the relationship.

Granted, easier said than done. But, what other "healthy" way is there to look at it?

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any tips on the type of attitude a girl should adopt or things she should do to keep her man interested?

wow i ask myslef this question all the time! Of course every guy is different so every guy likes different things but these are the types up things i have picked up along the way…
-Outgoing- Talk alot and dont be shy! walk around with your head up high. And make it seem like you are hard to get

-Dumb- guys like it when girls do kinda blak stares. or if a guy starts telling you something that is kinda hard to get just be like Whhhaattt???? like your really dumb. I have no clue why though!!

-Giggly- Laugh at everything the guy says! It makes the guy feel like he is funny and he loves it when a girl laughs!

-LOUD- be really loud, stand out from the crowd. Be the only one to raise your hand when a teacher asks a personal question… laugh really loud talk loud. But not to an obnoxious point just to let him no you matter!

well there are a few more that i have picked up but these are the main ones!!
I hope this helps. All girls are in your same boat! dont worry its totally normal to wonder this so if you get some crappy answers then screw them!!! hahaha
hope you get the guys!

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I need help dealing with my 3 1/2 year relationship ending. I love my ex boyfriend, Brandon very much. He transferred to a state university and the same day that he moved into his apartment he decided that it was time to end our relationship. He said it was too stressful (which it really can be). I’m devastated because he usual speaks highly of our relationship and tells me that we will get married when we are finished with college. Now just like a flip of a switch he wants out and wants to meet other people and "enjoy his life". I honestly didn’t see this coming and didn’t realize I was preventing him in any way from enjoying life. I really wanted to be with him for the rest of my life, now I don’t have him at all. I’m extremely depressed, constantly crying whenever I’m not occupying myself. I’ve been out with my friends and have met new people and school started but its still not enough. I feel like a mental case that needs a psychiatrist before I do something harmful to myself. I know may others deal with long relationships ending, if you have any positive advise I would really like to hear it.

I have been in your situation, as I’m sure many others have. I think that’s what helped me get through things, is realizing that it’s something we all go through at one point or another. I think it brought a lot of clarity for me to be aware and understand that we’ve all been hurt, and that if others can endure and overcome such situations, so can I. I know that it’s terribly daunting, and I don’t wish these feelings on anyone. I also felt like I couldn’t think straight after breaking up with the person who I loved immensely. But eventually, I was able to start putting myself and my happiness first, instead of constantly questioning why I couldn’t help to keep things together.

I think it would be helpful for you to think about who he is now rather than who he was when you guys were together. He is obviously not in a place to be in a relationship and has opted to put himself before you. There is no way you would want to remain in that kind of relationship, where someone doesn’t think about your well-being before his. Hopefully, that makes sense to you.

The decision he’s made is ultimately a selfish one. And if you keep that in mind, you’ll realize how important it is to keep true to yourself and eventually you will come across someone who can truly appreciate a relationship with you. Also, you never know, perhaps you guys will resume your relationship later down the line, once time has passed and you both realize what you still mean to each other. Be strong, confident in yourself, and also optimistic for whatever may come. I wish the best for you!

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My girlfrind and I have been together for three years. I do love her, however we are not right for each other. We don’t fight, or argue much. The only complaints I really have is that she is a very messy person, who doesn’t clean up after herself or her son. I used to do the majority of the housework, but I just don’t care anymore. She can’t cook, clean, or do much of anything on her own. She is very co-dependant, and she doesn’t have any friends. I have tried to end it before, but she is very good about making me feel bad or feel sorry for her. I have decided to end our relationship for good this time. But I could use some advice on the best way to end a relationship with a very emotional and sensitive girl?

Well either way she will be very emotional and sensitive. Tell her the truth… that you don’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with her and that you don’t want to waste each others time any longer. Then leave it as that. Don’t say anything like "oh we can still be friends" because that will just drag it on. End it with no more communication.

Off the record…I feel kind of bad for the kid involved. I don’t know the whole situation but if her child was close to you..he might take it hard.

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we have been together a month and i really miss him and care about him and everything i miss his kisses and everything how do i get him back plz give me some tips on how to be a better girlfriend and to be there for him and to trust him plz give me advice and some tips.

Don’t chase after him.
If he comes back it was meant to be.
You want us to tell you how to be a better girlfriend, that’s not up to us, it’s up to YOU!
THINK ABOUT IT!
You do need to trust him. Trust is very IMPORTANT.

Good-luck!

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