Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

The affair was emotional and not physical. Did you have a hard time forgetting about the other person? If so how long did it take?

You need to realize what you did was wrong no 2 ways about it, whether it was a physical or emotional affair. Maybe he finally realized he was going down the wrong path and bailed on you because it was leading to the physical part. Why can’t you find someone to get attached to that isn’t married? Are you not worthy?

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Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up in May
I just started talking to him again
whats the chance of us getting back together?

thanks alot )

I’ve never gotten back together with an ex. Chances are slim but it does happen that if you two get back together it will actually work.

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It seems the Christians I meet have met Christ when there has been hardship like recovering from alcohol, drugs divorce and I was wondering exactly why, why if you didnt need Christ than all of a sudden you clung to him, and if it helped you or made life worse was the decision to follow Jesus yours or when you were hurting was he introduced upon you by someone else as the way to ease the pain in your heart.

The opposite happened to me i lost my faith at a time of hardship. i guess life tends to throw us in certain directions. I like to think there is some sort of reasoning behind everything. but personally religion does feel like it acts as a band aid. i try to put my faith in friends and family they dont let u down.

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Has anyone ever gotten back together with an ex after a bad breakup or after a long time?

Yes..Remarried my first husband after 15 years of being apart.

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Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?

Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?

When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?

I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.

Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.

It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.

Years ago, I did try to work things out with my sons father. Second time didn’t work either.{Thank Goodness!!!} If it had I never would have met the love of my life. The man in my life now and I did split up for a year after dating for 6 years. We’ve been back together for 8 years now. It can work if it’s meant to be. Look deep in your heart and don’t listen to your head, you’ll figure out what to do. Good luck.

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My ex girlfriend of over 2 years and I met for the first time this weekend since our break up over 3 months ago. The break up was hard and we went back and forth between NC and LC. She began dating shortly after our breakup which caused me a lot of anger and pain. The guy was completely different than me and she did admit she never thought she’d be together with someone like him.

It had been three months and finally starting talking again… albeit limited. We made plans to grab something to eat and have a few drinks. Dinner was very good… not really awkward in fact it went fast as we had 3 months of catching up to do and both had lots of questions.

Afterward we had some beers and continued to have a good time. We both talked a lil about each others partners (as I am just beginning to date) and she is still dating the same guy. Overall i think it was great and really went better than I anticipated.

What I’m confused about is I still find her incredibly attractive and I’m confident that she still does too with me. I kind of get the feeling she’s happy with her current boyfriend, as evident with the fact they are taking trips to Mexico and Vegas so early in their relationship however she might still have feelings for me. She did say the fact she met her boyfriend so fast after the breakup, helped distract her from our breakup.

What would you guys do in my situation? I love the girl to death and want to be in her life, even if for now im just a friend, however, I made it clear I’m not JUST satisfied with that and I would want more. I have made steps by dating now, but I seem to always have the possibility of getting back together down the road in the back of my mind.

What should I do… ladies advice or experience would be greatly appreciated!!

This is talking from experience…

I was in a 5 year relationship and lived with a guy I though I was going to marry, have children with, the whole thing.

Turns out he didn’t feel the same way, and we broke up 5 months ago.
We tried to get back together this past summer, but it didn’t work because there were issues that we never touched back on.
We ended things on bad terms again and we have not spoken in over a month.

My advice is, you broke up for a reason correct? Remember that reason, and think about if it can be fixed. Talk about it and work on it, but in the meantime also realize that she’s in another relationship as well. Maybe she doesn’t feel the same way, and that could be an even bigger hit to you.

I would back off and give her her space, and let her new relationship blossom. Like that old cliche, ‘if you love someone set them free’. It sucks but it’s true.

Have fun dating again, you learn what to look for in a woman and what you want from a relationship. And BE PICKY.

Good luck, and take care

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I want my ex back badly but dont know should I try to be a friend and hope it goes back to the way it was being sweet to her and everything. Or should I just give it time and try in a few months.

It all depends on who broke whos heart first and why?????
if you broke up with her first and realized after all she was the one than I suggest to you…try talking to her,take it very slow…she may of hurt really bad about the breakup..you need to show her that you love her…trust is a big thing and sometimes once hurt your afraid to go back only thinking you will get hurt again.
seriously I would take my time ..talk with her…..tell her how you feel and what she feels to you.
if this women has loved you and the relationship was based more on the good than the bad ..give her time to trust you again and she will come back…however there is also a chance depending on how long ago this was..she might of moved on.
if and when you do win her back…keep her..love her….and never let go

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