Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

My girlfrind and I have been together for three years. I do love her, however we are not right for each other. We don’t fight, or argue much. The only complaints I really have is that she is a very messy person, who doesn’t clean up after herself or her son. I used to do the majority of the housework, but I just don’t care anymore. She can’t cook, clean, or do much of anything on her own. She is very co-dependant, and she doesn’t have any friends. I have tried to end it before, but she is very good about making me feel bad or feel sorry for her. I have decided to end our relationship for good this time. But I could use some advice on the best way to end a relationship with a very emotional and sensitive girl?

Well either way she will be very emotional and sensitive. Tell her the truth… that you don’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with her and that you don’t want to waste each others time any longer. Then leave it as that. Don’t say anything like "oh we can still be friends" because that will just drag it on. End it with no more communication.

Off the record…I feel kind of bad for the kid involved. I don’t know the whole situation but if her child was close to you..he might take it hard.

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So me and this guy were dating for a little bit over a year and we just broke up yesterday. We were in a long distance relationship and the breakup was mutual but we’re both still hurting.

The reason we decided to break up was that he lived in Australia and I lived in the States. It was going to have to be me that moved there because he’s in the Air Force for 5 years. And I didn’t have the courage to move there at the age of 18.

And he and I agreed that doing the long distance for 5 years would be too difficult and painful for both of us.

Can you please help me and us cope with this. We really do love each other, but we don’t think that it is meant to be. He and I are hurting a lot right now. And we’re both trying to be strong for the other.

Please help me

Hi :] !
I’ve been in your exact situation before. I had a long distance relationship for a guy for about a year. I lived in California and he lived in Massachusetts. When we were going out the distance felt like it didn’t matter because of the love we had for each other, but we were both scared of giving up our lives at our home towns and that was the downfall of the relationship. It’s been many months but i’ve grown to cope with it. I found someone really special actually, and im hoping it’ll last.
Advice for you, if it’s really love, he’ll come back to you :]
but in the mean time, try getting your mind off of him by consuming your time with something else. Maybe catch up with some old friends, start a new hobby, or just relax. Summer’s coming up and you shouldn’t be sad !

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i’m planning to break up with him at the end of next week. he hasn’t been giving enough attention and he has changed over the last few months, we have got to stage that things won’t get any better. what do i say to him? i still love him, but i just feel so undervalued, it’s a long story. do i give him one last kiss as well? what do you think? xx

thanks so much for answering my question too.

i would just tell him what you wrote down here.
that it’s not a case of you not loving him, but it’s just that you think things aren’t going to get better. you feel undervalued by him, and think it’s best if both of you move on.

breaking up with someone is definitely hard. i know. i just broke up with my boyfriend too. but be strong. it will all work out.

a goodbye kiss might be good too. it might just say that you can still be friends.
good luck!

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So me and this guy were dating for a little bit over a year and we just broke up yesterday. We were in a long distance relationship and the breakup was mutual but we’re both still hurting.

The reason we decided to break up was that he lived in Australia and I lived in the States. It was going to have to be me that moved there because he’s in the Air Force for 5 years. And I didn’t have the courage to move there at the age of 18.

And he and I agreed that doing the long distance for 5 years would be too difficult and painful for both of us.

Can you please help me and us cope with this. We really do love each other, but we don’t think that it is meant to be. He and I are hurting a lot right now. And we’re both trying to be strong for the other.

Please help me

There is not quick fix for this sweetie. I’m sure you both cared very much for eachother so for awhile its going to hurt. Maybe try doing projects to keep your mind off things wathcing movies or hanging out with friends. I wouldnt talk to him for a week or two though because you both need alittle time apart to heal or else you never will. Its so easy to say we made a mistake then get stuck with the same problems. Just give it some time things always look better after cold pizza and a tub of rockey road ice cream.

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What was the hardest part of being alone after your long term relationship breakup? My fiancee left me in June, and to this day I still have not been given a reason why. I am in therapy, but still find it hard to cope. What are the hardest things for you to get over? Do you miss the late night phone calls or companionship?

Not knowing what comes next. For me that’s the hardest, the unanswered future. Will I be ok? will she be ok?

Sorry to hear you are still wondering why your relationship ended. I’m sure that’s tough to deal with!

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