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I like girls but I don’t understand the dating and asking out thing. How do you start to date? Anything related with dating for a someone who doesn’t know anything about it.
Dont Blink I like your answer.
Well you guy, how do I get to know her? I can’t just ask her anything like that, can I? What questions should I ask?

think of it as a hang out with someone u like
just have fun
enjoy it
dont stress it
dont take the word date seriously

kiss the girl good night
nd ure done

answer mine plz?
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I’ve recently broke-up my boyfriend of three years. I don’t usually go looking for guys immediately after leaving a relationship. I like to give myself about 4 or 5 months before I’m interested in dating again.

How about you?

As soon as possible, because you never know that person you didnt give a shot to just because you werent ready might be the one! who knows!

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I’m not doing this right now, but I’m wondering… do people go into it saying the next person has to be 100% of what I’m looking for? Or do you settle for 90%? 50%? How high do you set your expectations?

I definitely don’t think you should settle at all!
I think that the next person should have most of the qualities that I desire in a mate for me and the kids.
If there is a physical appearance that can be changed, I don’t hold that against the person. It’s really the personality and brain that matters the most as well as compatibility.
You know what your expectations are and what you can live with and what you cannot.

For me, I definitely am not going to settle. The last time I settled it bit me in the butt.

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i am 32 years old . a single mother of two great kids a 13 years old daughter and a 11 year old son. i was i love with my husband but he did not love me and has told me many times while we were married. so i don’t know what it feels like to bo loved back. i don’t want to rush into a new spouse again because that’s what i did with my x. i want to take my time and get to know the guy first. i didn’t really get to know my x before i married him . we met in 93 got married in 94 had our first baby in 95 bought a house in 96 had our second baby in 97 and it just keeps going on from there until the divorce in 07. he just got remarried 2 months ago but moved her and her 2 kids in to my old house 2 weeks after i left and that has been really hard on my 2 kids. i got over him long ago but the kids still have a really hard time with it . i don’t want them to feel that again. i don’t want to push other people in to their lives . i asked my son what he thought about me starting to date someone. he wasn’t happy about it at all. and i am also afraid. what do i do?

Your kids are older now. I know how they feel, but they need to understand that you as their mom have needs. Tell them that no man can replace their dad, but you need to find love again. I think if you explain it to them, they might understand. Give love a chance……

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Help Me Please! Im 24 years old and I have lived with my 29 year old boyfriend for two & 1/2 years now. We have a pretty good relationship in the winter, but it sucks in the summer. He is a motorcycle rider and is part of a bike club and will be out with them for half of the day a couple days a week. He always tells me that he is doing one thing and always ends up doing everything else, (he’ll say ‘babe I’m going out for a quick ride with like one or two other people and I’ll will be back in a hour or two’, Then he will not call me for 3 hours until I call and he does not answer cause he is on his bike of coarse, and then he will come home 2 hours later only because him or one of his friends got pulled over or chased by cops.) He stays out until late at night like 12 or 1am and expects me to not be upset. Meanwhile he does not even want me to walk our dog around the block in the afternoon/evening,( so called because there are too many people outside to distract the dog). Yet alone go out with my girlfriends to hang out. This has been going on for 3 summers now and every time spring comes he tells me babe I love you and we are going to have a great summer together and we are going to do a lot of things together and he is gonna lay off of the bike thing soo much because he knows it hurts our relationship. Mind you he has a full time job he goes to mon-fri 8am – 5 pm every wed he is committed to his "ride out days" and evert sunday they have a meeting and ride half the day. He also has a child that he spends time with, that I am not really allowed to be around to much because his childs mother is a B and gets jealous when ever his child is around me and goes home and talks to her about what we did, not because I am a bad person but because she is upset/jealous that me and my b/f are so close with each other. Please some advice from guys and girls would really help. I think I need to leave this relationship b/c I am missing out every summer in the house ALL summer long( I work from home too, no kids just a cat and dog) because he is with his friends and I don’t want to start an arguement by going out with my friends. I feel like I am spending all of my summers either working, with my pets, mad or bored. And I think I should be able to be happy. Do you think I am not being resonable or that I should stay with him? Maybe he will change right? Or I just should not care what he does? HELP!!!!!

First of all, he is 29 years old, with a kid, and he spends his free time running from the cops on his bike with his friends??!!! Tell him he needs to GROW UP. My husband has a bike, and he likes to go out riding w/ his friends, but it is also something that we like to do together.

Second of all, if he hasn’t changed yet after all this time, he is never going to change. It sounds like you put him first in your life, but you rank pretty low on his priority list. He needs to tell his child’s mother to butt out. If two people have a kid together and then part ways, it is expected that they will date other people, and that they too will be a part of the child’s life. You shouldn’t have to suffer for her own insecurities, and he needs to tell her that.

Third, he is setting such a double standard for you to live by. I used to date a guy like that before for almost 4 yrs. He could go out to clubs with his friends, but gave me grief for wanting to have a cup of coffee with one of my friends. Unless you have done something to lose his trust, it is completely unfair of him to keep you locked up in your home. Even if something did happen for you to lose his trust, he needs to forgive and forget or else you will never be happy.

But it sounds to me like you are in a very unhealthy relationship. But if you are not ready to jump ship, you need to stop worrying about starting an argument, and just doing things that you like to do without him, and standing up for yourself. See what happens from there. Explain to him how lonely you feel. If he still doesn’t get it, then you need to find somebody who will treat you the way you want to be treated no matter what time of year it is.

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Depends on my motive. If all I wanted was to get laid then no. If I was looking for a wife then yes, if I was attracted to her.

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I broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, we are back together 2 days later. Would you keep counting the days that weve been together or start new?

only 2 days? lol

start from where you left off…emotional ties were still there..

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Me and my ex gf were together for about 11 months before we broke up. We kinda ended things on a bad note but I guess you can say were both cordial. I still love her and lately been thinking about her and missin her so much.. Any good ways on how I can approach her and talk to her again?? We haven’t talked in like three weeks but been broken up since sept.

I Have this same problem right now. except under diffrent terms

but anyways, iwould just be up front about your feelings.

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