How can I be less sensitive ? (getting over a breakup)?
Monday, February 15th, 2010I’ve mostly been in serious longterm relationships with strong emotional connections. I’m very passionate and have a lot of love to give my gfs. I’ve mostly ended my past relationships Except my Last one which was kinda forced upon me. Sadly enough she was the one who I had the strongest attraction to, I never got tired of seeing her face and I loved her soo much. Now I feel so empty, numb, emotional, and then a lot of hurt inside, specially betrayed. Like Loving too much = Hurting so much. We broke up a while ago, but I’m still "scarred" by the situation.
I used to be optimistic about love, now i’m not. I’ve fallen in love 3-4 times, so love is fleeting. I’m so hurt by her that I find it really hard to trust women in general and feel like it’s getting in my way of dating again. Like I see the big picture and ask "what’s the point?" if I fall in love agian, only to be hurt again…So I’m just depressed and bitter, and don’t know how to alleviate this.
And No I don’t like 1 night stands or short term gf to ease my pain. I’m not motivated to date again. When I fall for someone I put all my eggs in 1 basket. But I don’t know if I can do that anymore. How can I overcome these feelings so I can move On with my life ?? It’s effecting my outlook
give it time
develop a hobby that will take your mind off it,
preverably something theraputical like writing in a journal or painting or other forms of expressing yourself. these kinds of hobbies are very, they help you maintain a healthy psychological state.
eventually you’ll meet someone and fall for them again.
whatever happens then will happen.
let life unfold itself.
