Pregnant,breaking up,stressed out. How to cope?
Monday, November 9th, 2009*Please! rude, unhelpful comments not needed.
6 mos. pregnant and seeking divorce. Husband deported but calls many times a day. We’ve talked about breaking up before but he’s the type that doesn’t understand ‘no’. I feel guilty for not answering the phone and feel obligated to at least let him know that baby is okay. I’m totally stressed and in deep depression. Seeing therapist and psychiatrist. One says avoid calls and try to keep myself stressfree,and to make a decision when I am comfortable. The other says avoiding the calls is a form of running away and every week she asks me if I have decided what I am going to say. There is some "caring" left, but no LOVE. I can’t think of a single reason to stay with this person (I’m still trying to work with therapist to see why I didn’t realize this b4 preg…) How can I cope without feeling guilty?? Have decided to divorce because I can not deal with his mental illness(I don’t want to elaborate).
if hes mentally ill theen he doesn’t need to be around th baby 24/7. it seems as if hes putting you through unnecessary drama. f you’ve already tried to explain to him many of time how you feel and that you no longer want to be married then maybe something is wrong with him. you’re doing what best for your family, you and your baby.
