Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

The affair was emotional and not physical. Did you have a hard time forgetting about the other person? If so how long did it take?

You need to realize what you did was wrong no 2 ways about it, whether it was a physical or emotional affair. Maybe he finally realized he was going down the wrong path and bailed on you because it was leading to the physical part. Why can’t you find someone to get attached to that isn’t married? Are you not worthy?

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For those of you who have gotten back together with an Ex, how did it happen, and how did you get back together with them? What did the two of you do that you got back together. If they dumped you, and you got back together, how did it happen, how did you get back together? I know its not impossible, but if you’ve done it, whats you’re story, how did it happen for you, what did you to do to get back together, and what would you say one should do to get back with their Ex? My Gf and I dated for 8 months. But about 3 months ago, it was a stressful time for both of us. She called it off, said it wouldn’t work out between us. But since then, I’m the only guy she see’s or hangs out with. She still hangs out with me and talks to me. Really nothing has changed since we dated. I still love her, and I feel she still likes me, why else would she still stick around. I want to start it back up with her, I don’t feel we ever really split up. But she called it off, so I know she has to start it back up, But I don’t know what to do. I want a married persons opinion, because you’ve made it through the up’s and downs of dating. Your advice please!

Being a married person who went through a similar situation, you have to do two things. The first thing is that you need to find out what the relationship means to her. What I mean is, have her define the relationship because it sounds like there is a case of two people viewing the same relationship differently. The second thing that you have to do is continue on with your life. Before I married my husband, we got into a big argument and did not talk for 2 months. The first two days I was devastated, then after that I continued on with my life. Now mind you we lived next door to each other. For some reason, you become more attractive to a person when you continue with your life and make like they do not exist. he ended up begging me to talk to him and 6 months later we got married. That was 6 years ago! Good luck, if it is meant to be with this lady and she is the one, things will work out!

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I was married for 10 years and when I found out I was being cheated on, I left her. Prayer was the only thing that got me through. I’d sit there and have long prayers, pouring my heart out. Talking about it made me feel better and things started to go better after that. For that, I thank God.
It will take time though, a lot of time. Good luck.

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Regardless of reasons and past issues. How does a person get over a break up depression? Just need to get out of depression and get on with rising again.

try not to go to places where you went, stop listening to the same music you did together.

get rid of the phrases you guys made up.. couples tend to do that… make up their own phrases and things they say alll the time… don’t remind yourself of the inside jokes you two shared.

throw away all of the things your partner gave you, yes, that includes everything..

focus more on yourself. try exercising and doing things that’ll keep you busy, physically, mentally or both.

OH.. and do NOT cut yourself off from friends.

i know you wouldn’t wanna do any of the above…. but really, you gotta give in to it to get out of it.

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