Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

ok so recently my boyfriend and i broke up. well it was about 4 months ago..i still miss him, have dreams about him etcetera. it was really bad with him. the breakup was terrible..there was a lot of not talking, bitter ness him saying i was crazy and needed meds etcetera. i later learnd he had some girl lined up to replace me …and that he ended up dating her after we broke up (for a very short period of time).in the end of our relationships i dont think he was sure about our relationship, since he had a kid and i didnt etcetera it complicates things…he kept changing his mind and i finally told him no…this is it. now i kidna regret it cuz i loved him. i still dont know if he ever really cared about me. i made the mistake of contacting him 2 months after the whole thing happened..which was a BIG mistake cuz he swore at me, it hink to get me out of his life totaly. i ran into him at the mall the other dya with antoher girl..dont know who she is. but after we broke up his sister told me he cheats, and never settles for long, and his best friend even told me that he gets bored of girls really easy and to not get involved with him, if he was me. anyway he did what i was told he woudl do and he mvoed on..i havent moved on..i saw him in the mall with some girl the other day..and i dont know if its the same one he was with. i really loved him,a dn i cant belive he STILL hasnt contacted me or anything, when i saw him he gave me a really sad look but does that mean he doesnt care at all or what does that mean?? people are saying its cuz i havent moved on, but he doesnt know that..ive made sure never to contact him after 2 months ago. its taken away my confidence i dont even want to date anyone new, and hes TOTALY moving on…what can i do? is there any way he may contact me again in the future when hes a lone and realizes going through millions of girls wont make him happy? I cant beleive he just moved on like that..does it mean i meant nothing to him?and i dont need to hear that "hes not into you" because he was at one point..the guys just a player i think…seeing him with that girl just felt like another knife in the heart..im even thinking of moving so i dont ever have to see him again, how could he just let me go like htat, we had something special!!!

You have to let it go.

What’s gone is gone!

Find a larger purpose in life, do the things you love to do!

Technorati Tags: caused, pain

My ex is having a hard time moving on and I’m feeling guilty. What should I do to help her move on? Getting back together is not an option.

Give her space especially if you aren’t going to take her back. You are only going to hurt her more if you keep your contact and could also lead her into believing that you guys can get back together. Honestly, you are the last person who will make her feel better at this point. Just leave her alone and let her deal with the pain on her own.

Technorati Tags: breakup, ease, pain

Hi People,

Recently, I’ve posted a help question asking for advice to please my Taurus bf. I did all those things as suggested, and unlike normal couple, we stopped talking over the phone for 2 weeks already. I didn’t mind, we meet each other in between, its not so bad, not like we never contact at all or anyting, we still text everyday. However, I was havin a rough day at work one day and it hurt me dat despite knowin abt it, he juz ask me to cheer up over text and headed to bed. It never crossed his mind to gimme a 5 min phone call and ask how am I, that’s all I needed and I don’t demand anything more. I text him how I felt and the next day he broke up with me, he feels he is too selfish to be a good bf, and he wants to do his own things without answering to anybody. Despite that, I went over and have a talk with him….he told me the feelings aint the same anymore for about 1 mth ago, and he was considering a breakup. He didn’t wanna feel unhappy anymore waking up to all my emotional smses… He said he didn’t love me enough to continue anymore…it hurt so bad, because I was tryin my best to do whatever I can….and it hurts to know that the past 1 mth, he was just pretending to love me………it happen too sudden for me to accept dat he has given up on me…and to know he no longer miss me or care for me dat way anymore.

I know this is going to suck to hear, but it really sounds like he was planning to move on anyway, and he was just looking for the smallest excuse. You didn’t do anything wrong. He just wanted to go. I’m sorry your so hurt, and there’s nothing I can tell you that’s going to keep your heart from hurting right now, but I can tell you that something better is around the corner for you and you just have to stop trying to fix this broken thing and let it pass. It’s not your fault. It’s just time for you to move on. And you’ll be okay.

Technorati Tags: Heart, helpmy, pain, pls