Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I broke up with my boyfriend according to him he was totally in love right just before he broke up with me, its been only three weeks and on his myspace says that he’s "starting to enjoy himself again" I still dealing with the break up pretty bad and not able to move on yet. How could he move on so fast?? any ideas?? you think he wrote that on his myspace just for me to read it and give the impression he’s having lots of fun?? please help

I can only speak for myself but for me it is tough.

I returned from Vietnam in 1970. The woman I left, the woman I loved had moved on while I was ducking bullets and dodging mortar rounds. Seldom does a day pass that I don’t think of her. I mostly wonder if she is happy. I hope so, I let her go because I loved her, not because I was angry. Perhaps if I had been angry it would have been easier. I did marry and I have children but I also have the demons that was that relationship. I am now approaching the end of my life and still those demons haunt me. It would not surprise me if she was the last thing I think of in this life.

You may want to move on in spite of the situation; not to hurt him but maybe to help yourself. You are the only one who can make that decision. I hope you can rid yourself of the demons, they are very heavy baggage and they will always be there. It is a matter of whether you carry them with you of if you can store them safely away in the attic of your memories.

Good luck, I hope it works out for you.

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Where is a good place to meet men besides the internet.

In Church?

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I don’t mean hanging out in bars/clubs/pubs. I’m not into drinking/smoking/drugs… Where do you suggest I should go meet men who wants a committed relationship? Serious answer seeking. Thanks

church

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I’ve been single for about 3 years now, don’t get me wrong I’ve gone on dates, but nothing to get excited about. I’ve been in a dating rut though, it seems the guys I’ve been meeting are either looking for an easy lay, cheating on their gf or want to get married tomorrow. I could use some good ideas on where to meet smart, attractive, quality men.

Hmmm same here… however quite different for me. I’m not looking for a woman higher than 30. I’m pretty mature and all the girls I meet are to partyish. I’d say if you want maturer men and older go places like them. Bars will probably just be another guy wanting to get laid (maybe.) Try church, library colleges. Who knows I seen people there men and women look more mature than your everyday places. I swear there are men and woman out there that are perfect matches but extremely far away. I guess it all depends on where your at.

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I hear from dudes to meet decent women just around at grocery stores and stuff like that but that never has really worked for me. and also have been told not clubs. so i wanna ask the ladies where they go to meet men and are most willing to give them the time of day. i just want to hear it from the source. Where would i meet decent women?

simply–in the good places.
no women is gonna meet a serious guy in a night club.. or a strip party. Just using that as an example.. it’s all about the location..Good and decent men hangs out in decent places..

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1. how can a women keep a man always on his toes without frustrating him with a million mind games?
**keep in mind, guys, that you may say you hate game playing – but think about a specific situation where a woman remained completely mysterious and you could never tell how exactly she felt about you.. weren’t you intrigued by her? and didn’t u like her all the more? as opposed to a girl who called you right after your first date and was like ‘hi! wanna make plans for a second date?!" it seems to be a thin line between playing games and being too overbearing… HOW can a girl acheive a happy medium??

2. are the tactics used at the beginning of ‘courtship’ (e.g. where a woman might not call a guy back right away after their first date in fear of scaring him off for committment) the same sort of tactics that should be used to keep a man interested later in the dating process (about a month into relationship) and even later than that?

It would be great to meet someone whose not a game player and you could relate to each other straight up, eye to eye, heart to heart!

One thought is, if you have to consider playing games, is it worth it?

But I think this: Relate to you man in the area of his interests. Does he like sports? Take an interest in what he’s into, whether to watch or to participate if possible.

If you share his interests, you’ll always be on the inside, and in his thoughts.

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WHY would he say, he is busy and had to sleep early to bed and you find out he is online with chat friends and he wouldn’t want to talk to you. He would only talk to you on the weekend to ask you for cybersex. Does he really care for you.
| want to Understand a Man’s Mind…. help me pls.

i hate to say this, but honestly, i think he’s taking you for granted, and my guess is that it’s not your fault. i’m assuming that you used to have a healthy two-sided relationship and that you use the time you spend with him to treat him right, to show an interest in his life, and to be honest with him about how you feel and what you want.

maybe he wants to break up with you but doesn’t have the spine to take responsibility for his feelings and instead is treating you poorly in hopes that you’ll end it and move on. there are endless possible explanations, really, but i don’t think it’s very important to figure out which one is correct. the bottom line is that he’s taking you for granted, isn’t fulfilling your needs, and isn’t giving you an opportunity to fulfill his needs.

my advice is that you should confront him. tell him that care about him, and that you enjoy the time you spend with him, and that you want to make him happy, but that you feel taken for granted and shut out of his life and want to know how he feels and what his motivations are. maybe he’ll open up and you can work on things together. if he doesn’t, though, my advice is that you should move on. no one deserves to be treated dishonestly and with disregard.

good luck!

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i dated my ex for almost 2 years, we were ok but i think being too attached with each other makes us argue few times. He’s got some anger outbursts but i def love him. I know he loves me too. The last break-up we had was 3 months ago and we talked about it weeks ago, he cried to me. I am still in love with him. I emailed him my feelings too but it seemed he’s being aloof and email me some few words which i am not really contented at. What should i do? i want him back, any tips?

Tell him you want him back. You two are at a point now that you should not feel like you should have to hold anything back from each other. I think that maybe he did not know how to properly express his feelings through his email so he just wrote a few words. You two need to be face to face and just vent on how the both of you feel about your past relationship and current friendship.

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