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Where is a good place to meet men besides the internet.

In Church?

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I don’t mean hanging out in bars/clubs/pubs. I’m not into drinking/smoking/drugs… Where do you suggest I should go meet men who wants a committed relationship? Serious answer seeking. Thanks

church

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I’ve been single for about 3 years now, don’t get me wrong I’ve gone on dates, but nothing to get excited about. I’ve been in a dating rut though, it seems the guys I’ve been meeting are either looking for an easy lay, cheating on their gf or want to get married tomorrow. I could use some good ideas on where to meet smart, attractive, quality men.

Hmmm same here… however quite different for me. I’m not looking for a woman higher than 30. I’m pretty mature and all the girls I meet are to partyish. I’d say if you want maturer men and older go places like them. Bars will probably just be another guy wanting to get laid (maybe.) Try church, library colleges. Who knows I seen people there men and women look more mature than your everyday places. I swear there are men and woman out there that are perfect matches but extremely far away. I guess it all depends on where your at.

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I’m out of the bar scene, I just don’t get into it. Occasionally I meet a woman out at a restaurant or at a store. I remember, when I was younger, going to the club and meeting many women. I’m 27yrs old now and I have a 4 year old son. Wonder where people my age hang and meet each other?

It is refreshing to know that a 27 year-old single man with a child is no longer into the club scene. I know a LOT of men who aren’t so, good for you!

Back to your question: Your child’s school/daycare/preschool. i am sure you are not the only single parent…and there are a lot of cute single, teachers out there! My uncle just got remarried to his daughters teacher….they are so in love. Try going places where more mature women (women who are ready for kids and a family…so, probably not the bar scene) would go. There are always websites and support groups. Just some suggestions…hope it helps. Good luck!

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I hear from dudes to meet decent women just around at grocery stores and stuff like that but that never has really worked for me. and also have been told not clubs. so i wanna ask the ladies where they go to meet men and are most willing to give them the time of day. i just want to hear it from the source. Where would i meet decent women?

simply–in the good places.
no women is gonna meet a serious guy in a night club.. or a strip party. Just using that as an example.. it’s all about the location..Good and decent men hangs out in decent places..

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But then you did and you were happier than ever? How long did it take to get over the break up? How long had you been together?

YES!!! Especially after my first love because we had been together 3 yrs & had a child. We even talked about getting married. I can’t exactly remember how long to get over him but I’m happier than ever now.

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My ex girlfriend of over 2 years and I met for the first time this weekend since our break up over 3 months ago. The break up was hard and we went back and forth between NC and LC. She began dating shortly after our breakup which caused me a lot of anger and pain. The guy was completely different than me and she did admit she never thought she’d be together with someone like him.

It had been three months and finally starting talking again… albeit limited. We made plans to grab something to eat and have a few drinks. Dinner was very good… not really awkward in fact it went fast as we had 3 months of catching up to do and both had lots of questions.

Afterward we had some beers and continued to have a good time. We both talked a lil about each others partners (as I am just beginning to date) and she is still dating the same guy. Overall i think it was great and really went better than I anticipated.

What I’m confused about is I still find her incredibly attractive and I’m confident that she still does too with me. I kind of get the feeling she’s happy with her current boyfriend, as evident with the fact they are taking trips to Mexico and Vegas so early in their relationship however she might still have feelings for me. She did say the fact she met her boyfriend so fast after the breakup, helped distract her from our breakup.

What would you guys do in my situation? I love the girl to death and want to be in her life, even if for now im just a friend, however, I made it clear I’m not JUST satisfied with that and I would want more. I have made steps by dating now, but I seem to always have the possibility of getting back together down the road in the back of my mind.

What should I do… ladies advice or experience would be greatly appreciated!!

This is talking from experience…

I was in a 5 year relationship and lived with a guy I though I was going to marry, have children with, the whole thing.

Turns out he didn’t feel the same way, and we broke up 5 months ago.
We tried to get back together this past summer, but it didn’t work because there were issues that we never touched back on.
We ended things on bad terms again and we have not spoken in over a month.

My advice is, you broke up for a reason correct? Remember that reason, and think about if it can be fixed. Talk about it and work on it, but in the meantime also realize that she’s in another relationship as well. Maybe she doesn’t feel the same way, and that could be an even bigger hit to you.

I would back off and give her her space, and let her new relationship blossom. Like that old cliche, ‘if you love someone set them free’. It sucks but it’s true.

Have fun dating again, you learn what to look for in a woman and what you want from a relationship. And BE PICKY.

Good luck, and take care

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