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should i stay in a marriage where i am 80% of the time unhappy? i can be alone it has nothing to do with that cuz he is in the army and i am always on my own when he is deployed. he is deployed right now. we have 2 kids and i want to know if i should stick it out for them and try to make it work or leave while i am young. he also feels the same way as i do cuz we talk about it all the time. divorce has been brought up twice before to where i have even gone to a divorce lawyer. also we have been married 7 years. help i need some advice please.

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My fiance is in the army. We have been together for three years, and this 3rd year have been engaged. Right now he is stationed in El Paso, TX while I’m still here in Michigan at school. Him and my father made an agreement, that after I finished college, he would feel better with us getting married. Well, my degree is around the corner, but also, so is his deployment. It’s not like we planned on getting married right before deployment or anything like that, but the lines have crossed between me about to finish school and him leaving in the winter months. What are the pros and cons of getting married before deployment, besides "he might come back different"? (I know that part) But I also know a lot of people do this, so any good-willed advice? Thanks (:
i’m not getting married for convinience. the plan was to always get married after I got out of school

I would wait until he gets back from his deployment, you have done the long distance relationship this long. You never know how they are going to return after a deployment or how you are going to be after a year of being a newlywed all alone for a year, you might resent him for it. You both do not need the pressure of starting your first year of marriage in this kind of situation, wait until he comes back, has dwell time for a year and have the wedding of your dreams.

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My fiance is in the army. We have been together for three years, and this 3rd year have been engaged. Right now he is stationed in El Paso, TX while I’m still here in Michigan at school. Him and my father made an agreement, that after I finished college, he would feel better with us getting married. Well, my degree is around the corner, but also, so is his deployment. It’s not like we planned on getting married right before deployment or anything like that, but the lines have crossed between me about to finish school and him leaving in the winter months. What are the pros and cons of getting married before deployment, besides "he might come back different"? (I know that part) But I also know a lot of people do this, so any good-willed advice? Thanks (:
i’m not getting married for convinience. the plan was to always get married after I got out of school

I would wait until he gets back from his deployment, you have done the long distance relationship this long. You never know how they are going to return after a deployment or how you are going to be after a year of being a newlywed all alone for a year, you might resent him for it. You both do not need the pressure of starting your first year of marriage in this kind of situation, wait until he comes back, has dwell time for a year and have the wedding of your dreams.

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For those of you who have gotten back together with an Ex, how did it happen, and how did you get back together with them? What did the two of you do that you got back together. If they dumped you, and you got back together, how did it happen, how did you get back together? I know its not impossible, but if you’ve done it, whats you’re story, how did it happen for you, what did you to do to get back together, and what would you say one should do to get back with their Ex? My Gf and I dated for 8 months. But about 3 months ago, it was a stressful time for both of us. She called it off, said it wouldn’t work out between us. But since then, I’m the only guy she see’s or hangs out with. She still hangs out with me and talks to me. Really nothing has changed since we dated. I still love her, and I feel she still likes me, why else would she still stick around. I want to start it back up with her, I don’t feel we ever really split up. But she called it off, so I know she has to start it back up, But I don’t know what to do. I want a married persons opinion, because you’ve made it through the up’s and downs of dating. Your advice please!

Being a married person who went through a similar situation, you have to do two things. The first thing is that you need to find out what the relationship means to her. What I mean is, have her define the relationship because it sounds like there is a case of two people viewing the same relationship differently. The second thing that you have to do is continue on with your life. Before I married my husband, we got into a big argument and did not talk for 2 months. The first two days I was devastated, then after that I continued on with my life. Now mind you we lived next door to each other. For some reason, you become more attractive to a person when you continue with your life and make like they do not exist. he ended up begging me to talk to him and 6 months later we got married. That was 6 years ago! Good luck, if it is meant to be with this lady and she is the one, things will work out!

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My ex is getting married this month and has a baby on the way next month and we broke up last year August. We were in a 4 year relationship and I dumped him because he incurred too much debt and didn’t finish college. I’m totally over him, but I just wanted to ask how does one just get someone pregnant and marry so quick?? He use to work with the older (3-4 yrs) lady rarely. Whats with this guy?

It’s called……wait for it …..moving on.

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