Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I broke up with my bf of 9 years today. How does one recover from it?

Eat ice cream, watch sad movies, be depressed for an unknown amount of time and someday it ends up ok. just remember that the things that happend when you were ten arent the most important things, with time everything changes and feelings lessen. you’ll be ok.

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I’m out of the bar scene, I just don’t get into it. Occasionally I meet a woman out at a restaurant or at a store. I remember, when I was younger, going to the club and meeting many women. I’m 27yrs old now and I have a 4 year old son. Wonder where people my age hang and meet each other?

It is refreshing to know that a 27 year-old single man with a child is no longer into the club scene. I know a LOT of men who aren’t so, good for you!

Back to your question: Your child’s school/daycare/preschool. i am sure you are not the only single parent…and there are a lot of cute single, teachers out there! My uncle just got remarried to his daughters teacher….they are so in love. Try going places where more mature women (women who are ready for kids and a family…so, probably not the bar scene) would go. There are always websites and support groups. Just some suggestions…hope it helps. Good luck!

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How do u keep a guy interested in you? cUZ YOu know when u first start out ur flirty hang out from time to time… and theres just something thrillin about gettin to know eachother… but then u find yourself starting to get sick of eachother and just dont act the same anymore? How do i keep dude interested without giving the wrong impression. I dont want to look like i’m too needy by having to text, call or talk to him everyday, I want to be able to go days without seeing dude and then pickin up where we left off after each time!

Send him some sexy pic messages now and then.

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I want to sleep with someone but I don’t know him that well. I don’t want him to just dump me after we sleep together.

Think about it; you DON’T know him well enough to know if he will dump you after sleeping with him, you DON’T need to be sleeping with him!
Interest won’t happen if you give in so quickly, if he isn’t willig to wait, he is NOT worth your time! believe me, you will be happier IF you wait.

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I am 35, my fiance is 23. We have been together almost three years, and counting. The problem is, as with any young man, he is feeling a bit overwhelmed, and possibly bored with the relationship. At one time, we did fun things together, and shared new experiences. he was the most attentive and romantic man I ever knew. Now, we work, pay bills, and have so little left over for anything, let alone fun. He’s bored, I’m bored, and he is feeling like there is so much more out there for him than the dull, everyday life he leads with me. Help!!! I need to know what I, (we) can do to turn things around before it is too late. He is young, and strong willed, but I truly love him and don’t want to let go. I want to find a way to ignite the fires that burned only a short time ago.

Well it sounds like you gys are getting comfortable with eachother and having to get into reality instead of tuning out the rest of the world because everyinthig was so new at first. With your age difference, you and him were probably having a great love life due to you and him both being in your sexual peak times. Women and men are on different clocks biologicly so the age diff makes sense. But when the passion is starting to fizzle you may start to realize that sex isn’t the only reason people get together and is the last reason people stay together.

There are lots of ways to spice up the love life if that is what you are really looking to do. Role play, go to a Pure Romance party (hehe) and learn from an expert and your friends what others are trying, add some bedroom accessories and try a weekend getaway. Good luck in making your choices.

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So I seem to attract plenty of guys. I’m a catch and they know it. But after a while they lose interest. I don’t know what it is. It’s not that I express that much interest that might turn them off, but maybe bc I build myself up to be such a "catch" that when they "get me" it’s game over?

Anyway, I don’t want too sound crazy, but I’d really like tips on how to keep a man interested. I just got a new boy toy recently and I’d like to spice things up.

One thing I was thinking about is being unpredictable.

Post as many tips as you can ! THank yOU!

Anne,

- Let him be the creative one and you can be the recipient who responds to his creativity.

- Stop boasting about being "a catch" and let the guys arrive to that conclusion on their own.

- Stop reffering to your new male aquatances as "a boy toy" – it makes him sound like a pinball arcade.

- Let your heart and feelings show more than your outer layers.

That ought to bring you closer to what you are really looking for.

Sincerely,

Ms. Miche ; })

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1. how can a women keep a man always on his toes without frustrating him with a million mind games?
**keep in mind, guys, that you may say you hate game playing – but think about a specific situation where a woman remained completely mysterious and you could never tell how exactly she felt about you.. weren’t you intrigued by her? and didn’t u like her all the more? as opposed to a girl who called you right after your first date and was like ‘hi! wanna make plans for a second date?!" it seems to be a thin line between playing games and being too overbearing… HOW can a girl acheive a happy medium??

2. are the tactics used at the beginning of ‘courtship’ (e.g. where a woman might not call a guy back right away after their first date in fear of scaring him off for committment) the same sort of tactics that should be used to keep a man interested later in the dating process (about a month into relationship) and even later than that?

It would be great to meet someone whose not a game player and you could relate to each other straight up, eye to eye, heart to heart!

One thought is, if you have to consider playing games, is it worth it?

But I think this: Relate to you man in the area of his interests. Does he like sports? Take an interest in what he’s into, whether to watch or to participate if possible.

If you share his interests, you’ll always be on the inside, and in his thoughts.

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i was thinking about why we women always feel like we need to sleep with a man to keep him about.. I know in my past i’ve done that.. thinking that will be a good way to keep them around maybe get them to like me or something and it never turns out well..
when will we realize we are worth more!
i know not all women feel this way.. but deep down you know you’ve thought about it! aren’t we better than that?
are ourself essteems that low?
hrm i am currently not having this issue.. but i’ve noticed i’ve done it before… also from some posts on here it seems the younger generation is following into thinking thats how to get a man

So many women have low self-esteem, and think that if she sleeps with a guy, it will keep him around. The problem there is, if that is the case, she is with the wrong guy! There is a lack of respect on both ends: self respect from her, and respect she is not getting from the guy. I think it is a maturity issue as well. Once a women grows into herself and has the confidence she should have, that school of thought tends to disappear.

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Should she change her behavior? Her looks? what?
I meant keep him coming back for more and never looking away?

well u just give him a picture of urself naked and dont have sex with him so he gets really loco and then after i week , get in on baby!

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specifically, in and out of the bedroom, meaning what kind of things can i do as a woman to really make him pleased and interested in me?

remember back when you first started dating… I often feel the same as you.. I simply ask my husband… And he told me.. and of course I am trying.. And you know what? He asked me the same question..

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