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should i stay in a marriage where i am 80% of the time unhappy? i can be alone it has nothing to do with that cuz he is in the army and i am always on my own when he is deployed. he is deployed right now. we have 2 kids and i want to know if i should stick it out for them and try to make it work or leave while i am young. he also feels the same way as i do cuz we talk about it all the time. divorce has been brought up twice before to where i have even gone to a divorce lawyer. also we have been married 7 years. help i need some advice please.

I will pray for you.

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2 nights ago my (ex)girlfriend of a year and 3 months broke it off with me, she says that she fell out of love with me and feels like a relationship is to stressful at the moment. shes 18, soon to be 19 and i am 21.
She told me that she wants to go on a break, but its also sort of a break up, she did not specifically say how it was going to work out, but she just doesnt want to see eachother or talk for a while so she can see where she is emotionally in a while..This is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through, before her my longest relationship was 3 months. I am still completely in love with her and it just hurts so horribley, I feel like crying every single 10 minutes of the day. I feel suicidal but I am not going to kill myself, or leave my family like that.

She texted me the night after which was really suprising, she just said "hey, i dont know why i texted you but i just wanted to say hey." and I just said "okay, well i didnt text you all day or night because i am giving you your space and time that you need" and she never texted me back after that, or the whole day yesterday either.. She sent a text to my friend saying "I have to get used to not texting him, im just used to doing that every night."

Anyway I dont know how to be hopeful, I would rather look at things the worst then for the better so i dont get my hopes up. It hurts so F***** bad, and just dont understand how she could do that, I mean the signs have been there for a while and i should have relalized.
She changed all her myspace and facebook status’s to single..even though we might only be on just a break, but like i said it really does feel like a breakup because she was never specific.

I’m just wondering if it seems like i should be hopeful, just give her space and not text or call her at all and just wait and see if she will do it. Like i said this is the hardest thing I have ever been through in my life..

don’t worry about it too much. if you’re hoping for the best and driving yourself suicidal because of this, its best to just let it go.
of course its not going to be easy, and i understand, but in time you’ll see that she’s just another girl, and it’ll take some time for you to heal, but don’t worry, everything will be ok :]
my opinion is that just leave it alone for now. if she wants to come back in the relationship, then she will. relax and spend more time with friends and don’t let her get in with your happiness.

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her. I emailed her and simply said that I would like to try and make our relationship work. She told me that she misses me as well, but she needs more time, which I am going to give her. Before she broke-up with me, she said I had been a "heel" at times, not quite a jerk, bust just a thoughtless, selfish, stupid ass. No verbal abuse, we always respected each other, certainly no physical abuse and no cheating by either of us. I know she will get to the point where she will be over me entirely, and I will lose my high school sweetheart (she found me after 26 years of looking!) Please, no smarmy answers, I’m hurting here. Have you taken somebody back that was a little insensitive at times (together 7 months), but who you knew was very sorry and who is, in fact, capable of change? I really would like to think that she just needs that time, but that we can run into each others arms again (OK, I know, a little too sappy). Thoughts? TY!

If she says that she misses you, there is definitely a place in her heart that says that she wants to take you back, and that you’re still apart of her. Girls, often take back their ex. Just give her time, and some space, but make her realize that you’re willing to change, and you’re willing to work hard to gain back that trust, respect, and love that you once had. I have taken back someone who was a little insensitive at times, but I knew that he was sorry for all the wrong that he did to me. So don’t worry about it! Time will heal all things =) Hope this helped!

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I just want to know brcause sometimes i think i love him then other times i hate him!

you love him

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So I didn’t see my ex since the breakup 2 years ago until last night. It started out as coffee, then progressed to 2-3 beers each, making out and me spending the night over. I realized I still love him. What should I do?

remember why you broke up and ask yourself if you think he’s worth it

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I really like my bf, but i keep thinking of my ex

is it wrong to still be with him when i love my ex? or should i give it a bit of time

i’m so confused and don’t know what to do

The best thing is to sit down and talk to your new bf about your feelings, tell him that while you like him, you still love your ex. Explain how confused you are and ask him for some time apart to get your head and heart straight, if he is a decent person he will respect your honesty and your feelings even though this may hurt him to hear it. It is not fair to him or to yourself to be in a relationship if you are still in love with someone else. When you have figured out what you want to do ( try again with your ex or put your ex behind you because it can’t work or whatever happens) and you are thinking clearly call and tell him what you have decided to do. I wish you the best of luck.

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A ‘Reality Bite’ that is part 8 of the Guy Blews ‘13 Step Program’ in Realistic Relationships.

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OK! So there is this guy he is my ex and we still have alot of feelings for eah other! i love him so much but he is moving! and i wanted t right him a letter showing how i feel and i dont know wat to say! So please help me!!

The perfect thing to do is, by all means, put forth honesty. Most times, you will triumph and be a winner. Think about it, What is more comfortable and natural than to be yourself? Then you won’t ever have to put on an act. Peace!

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its been years and you’ve moved on already and you have a new bf or gf. i was wondering how many of you still feel butterflies in your stomach and feel your heart beat fast when you see your ex bf or ex gf…how many of you are still in love with them?

I feel that way sometimes. We were high school sweethearts, and were together for 4 years. Its been 2 years since we broke up. Whenever I come back home its like we’re supposed to be together because that’s how it always was before. I don’t think about it too much when I’m at college or anywhere else. It’s just when I go home I feel the need to talk to him or just be with him all the time. I’m not sure if that means I’m still in love with him or just really still care for him.

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its been years and you’ve moved on already and you have a new bf or gf. i was wondering how many of you still feel butterflies in your stomach and feel your heart beat fast when you see your ex bf or ex gf…how many of you are still in love with them?

I feel that way sometimes. We were high school sweethearts, and were together for 4 years. Its been 2 years since we broke up. Whenever I come back home its like we’re supposed to be together because that’s how it always was before. I don’t think about it too much when I’m at college or anywhere else. It’s just when I go home I feel the need to talk to him or just be with him all the time. I’m not sure if that means I’m still in love with him or just really still care for him.

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