Posts Tagged ‘kids’

Marriage & Divorce — help me to save my marriage from my wife’s nature. I am more worry about my kids.?

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

I have been married for 11 years. I have 2 kids. Both are under 8. Our life was good up to 8 years but after that my wife’s nature has been changed. First thing she doesn’t like my mom, dad and sister. Even if my parents do babysitter and most of the food preparation she always fight with them but I knew that my Wife is first to me then my parents so I have send my parents back to my country. Even if my parents call my house she always told me to insult them. Also if I call them then she always fight with me so I stop calling them.
Besides that my wife always tont me like you are dum,you don’t know how to happy me,she always bring issue of money in every topic like…because of more money you do this. She always told me that you are not capable of getting new good job even I work as a engineer and making more than $100000.She always working like boss and when ever we fight she never say sorry. I have to say sorry every time. Even if we both work I do more things then her.Pls Help me.

Hey stop letting her control you. This will get more respect from her and also yourself. Sounds like she is looking for you to stand up for yourself. But if this isn’t the case it might be time for you and the kids to think about ending the marriage.

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i love my husband but i am not inlove with him and we have 2 kids together. should we stay married cuz of kids

Saturday, February 27th, 2010

should i stay in a marriage where i am 80% of the time unhappy? i can be alone it has nothing to do with that cuz he is in the army and i am always on my own when he is deployed. he is deployed right now. we have 2 kids and i want to know if i should stick it out for them and try to make it work or leave while i am young. he also feels the same way as i do cuz we talk about it all the time. divorce has been brought up twice before to where i have even gone to a divorce lawyer. also we have been married 7 years. help i need some advice please.

I will pray for you.

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What’s the best way to handle breakup with kids involved?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Just a few weeks ago, I was posing a question on here regarding my ex-husband’s super fast relationship and how it was affecting my children. They were told she was "family now" after dating 10 days, and she moved in after 12 days. They were showered with gifts from their "stepmom". They set a wedding date for 2 months away. Both she and my ex were VERY pushy about this whole "new family" concept- even going so far as buying my girls "Mom and Me" activity books to do with this woman.

So now they are broken up- 7 weeks after she moved in. She is slowly moving her things out, and is spending the night with her mother already. She came over last night to "say goodbye" to my children and ended up staying and reading them a bedtime story. The kids even told me that she was going to call them and read them books on speakerphone later on.

I’m NOT okay with that. I think it’s dragging out a relationship that is over. I think it is harmful emotionally to the kids.

Am I overreacting?

I agree with you. It IS confusing to the kids! Don’t let it continue!

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Dealing with kids and divorce

Saturday, December 12th, 2009

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Relationship Advice: Desperate Man – Do All Women Want Kids?

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

http://www.askdanandjennifer.com

I often feel that the topic of kids is used by women to gage how serious a man is about the relationship. How do I tell them that I don’t want kids without ending the relationship right there on the spot?

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Should You Stay Married Just For The Kids?

Monday, November 30th, 2009

Marriage and Divorce Tips – http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/break-up-divorce/

Should you stay in a loveless marriage for the sake of the kids? It depends… Here’s an extreme case of getting and staying married for the WRONG reasons!

Ask Dan And Jennifer –
http://www.askdanandjennifer.com

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7 years ago my ex broke my teeth, can’t afford to get them fixed I have 3 kids to take care of. What do I do?

Thursday, November 26th, 2009


get medicaid they’ll pay for it

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How To Deal With A Wife Who Wants A Divorce…

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

Crazy Aussie don’t take no sh*t of his wife, who wants a divorce and demands the kids, car, house etc.

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No contact rule after breakup – See your ex or not?

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

http://vitalcoaching.com/breakupformen.htm
http://vitalcoaching.com/breakupforwomen.htm
Should I cut all contact with my ex? – You fight when you see each other – It is painful to see your ex – It keeps you stacked on the past – It disempowers you – Your ex abuses or blames you – If you are a better person when you don’t see them – In 90% of the cases seeing your ex when you are in the break up zone will have that kind of effect! – So, the simplest thing is not to initiate contact, especially if when you initiate contact, you secretly wish for an opportunity to get back together – If you do initiate contact, keep it to the minimal! – Usuallly, more than one short meeting or call a week will polarize your attention far too much on your ex and stop you from exploring new potential relationships

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Break Up Confusion – Does she really want to break up?

Monday, November 9th, 2009

My girlfriend of two months keeps telling me that I can do better than her, that she doesn’t deserve me, etc. She has a two year old daughter and is going through a nasty divorce… I decided to pursue a relationship with her in spite of her current situation. But now I concerned. Deep down, does she really want to break up with me – and just wants me to do the dirty work? What’s up with all the mixed signals? Why does she keep saying these things?

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