Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

The affair was emotional and not physical. Did you have a hard time forgetting about the other person? If so how long did it take?

You need to realize what you did was wrong no 2 ways about it, whether it was a physical or emotional affair. Maybe he finally realized he was going down the wrong path and bailed on you because it was leading to the physical part. Why can’t you find someone to get attached to that isn’t married? Are you not worthy?

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Just a few weeks ago, I was posing a question on here regarding my ex-husband’s super fast relationship and how it was affecting my children. They were told she was "family now" after dating 10 days, and she moved in after 12 days. They were showered with gifts from their "stepmom". They set a wedding date for 2 months away. Both she and my ex were VERY pushy about this whole "new family" concept- even going so far as buying my girls "Mom and Me" activity books to do with this woman.

So now they are broken up- 7 weeks after she moved in. She is slowly moving her things out, and is spending the night with her mother already. She came over last night to "say goodbye" to my children and ended up staying and reading them a bedtime story. The kids even told me that she was going to call them and read them books on speakerphone later on.

I’m NOT okay with that. I think it’s dragging out a relationship that is over. I think it is harmful emotionally to the kids.

Am I overreacting?

I agree with you. It IS confusing to the kids! Don’t let it continue!

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