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Girls what is the best way to win back my ex’s heart?

Monday, January 4th, 2010

I love my ex how can I win her love back. How much time does a girl need when she says she needs time by herself to sort out her emotions?

It would be good if there was a set amount of time that worked for everyone but some people need longer than others. How you split up may also be a factor in how much time she needs.

Avoid pressuring her and let her come round in her own time.

There’s some tips and advice below that you may find helpful too …

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Heart broken breakup…so hard that i want to hurt my self to ease the pain?

Monday, January 4th, 2010

I was in a 13-month interracial relationship. It was not easy for both of us:

- he cannot be committed to me without his family rejection over a interracial marriage
- he cannot express his feeling because english is not his first language
- he cannot be himself becuase he cannot speak hindi with me
- his mom kept pushing him for marriage, but he can’t tell his mom about me
- I feel seperated/lonely whenever i hang out with his friends.
- I feel insecure about the whole situation from the beginning to the end – worried when he is going to get arranged with another girl in his culture
- I feel i cannot connect with him and there is a gap between us.
- I feel desperate…i want light in the relationship, but it is always dark
- We like each other, we enjoy each other’s companies, we talk to each other in numerous hours of phone calls everyday

Despite all these, we managed to be together for 1 year. We were, in general, very happy together, but wenever we both talk about/think of the future. We ended up talking about breaking up. So, this time is finally 99.99%.

He decided to break up with me because his friend has a similar issue like ours. She chose to marry the man despite of the family’s disappoval. The family is now no longer calling her their daughter!

This is like a series of scences in a drama:

1. He was very strong-willed. He told me strongly, "I don’t like you, that’s it. I cannot do this anymore. Even now i feel intensed to be in a relationship with you, it will be 100x more intensed after i told my parents about you."

2. He still called me for the next two days and told me how much he missed calling me sweety..So i asked what does he want, he responded the same way as before.

3. I msged him and snapped ties with him. He regret for saying no to me cus I "may be the best thing he will ever have".

4. The next day, I called him and decided to ask him what’s his intention for saying that. He said "he doesn’t know what he is doing." but he still insisted of snapping ties, so i agreed.

He is going back to his native land to visit his parents in 2 weeks. I don’t know whether i should hope for anything at this point. I am so worried he is going to find another girl during his visit. I have so much stress in myself and i feel very sad. I feel hopeless and have thought of hurting myself to ease my pain from my heart.

REMEMBER THIS QUOTE:

"If you love something let it go. If it comes back it’s yours. If it doesn’t it was never meant to be." -Unknown

If he really had it in heart to be with you, then that’s all that would matter to him. I don’t think there is anything you can do but move on with your life. Why get into a marriage where the in-laws will not accept you anyway? That’s rough.

So consider this a favor to you. You can be with someone more valuable and more loving. Someone with a better family upbringing.

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How do you fix a broken heart that has been broken a million times, by thee same guy?

Friday, January 1st, 2010


Find a better guy.

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What do I do if my ex-boyfriend broke my heart?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Ok so I was going out with this guy,it was only for 4 days but I honestly fell in love with him. He was sweet always telling me he loved me,missed me,wanted me,wanted to see me, and always calling me baby and everything. Now i’m white and he is black (i’m not races) but my school is. Now we both ride the bus and we both get off at a park, and Friday i stayed after with him and we actually acted like a couple.We just held hands played,played with each others hands and I just sat in his arms and he hugged me and never let me go.I was so happy and comfortable there,but I could tell he didn’t feel right,he was so stiff.Saturday I was at a party and he knew and he kept texting me freaking out about me looking at other guys.Today he texted me telling me he needs to think about us and I told him ok. Then he told me he was thing about s** and I was like what the heck.I asked were we stood and he said we were over I was in shock…I didn’t know what to do.I really miss him but he is being a Jackass and I want to cry. I want him to feel the pain he made me feel.Then yesterday he told my friend he was in love with me and he was in to me and he didn’t want anyone but me,I asked if it was a lie and he told me no and I asked how you go from in love one day to not in love the other day.I dont know what do to.How can i make him feel the pain he caused me,I don’t want to get on the bus Monday and have to see him.It will brake my heart.What should i do?

c’mon girl! Dont be revengeful.It’s going to be hard but get over him! Thats all you can do.
If you try getting even he’s going to know you still care and he wins.
The best way to hurt him is to move on. Forget him. Live your life.

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Sunday, December 20th, 2009

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Why Men Withdraw And What To Do About It

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

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Coping With Breaking Up – How To Get Your Ex Back!

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

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How can you fix a broken heart ?

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

Nothing sarcastic please. Guys and girls` options are all welcome.
Please help. I need this for a project. :)

Need another person in same place.
if a girl or guy broke u r heart try to fix it with some other nice and good girl or boy.
live practical.

but,most of us cant,.i am struggling with same some day.

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How can you get through the initial stages of a broken heart?

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

I am going to lose the love of my life for reasons other than our relationship. What can I say to change his mind? If I can’t change his mind, how do I go on and go to work everyday pretending that I am not falling apart? I can’t eat or sleep because of anxiety and I have stomach cramps and a headache. I know that he loves me, but he can’t deal with my child and feels that he needs to get away. Help, I’m desperate. I have an appointment with a counselor, but not until Thursday night. How will I make it until then? Valentine’s day will be too much to bear tomorrow. Honest, I just want to curl up in a ball and never wake up.
He does love my 14-year-old daughter, but she cannot be what he wants as far as being a perfectly obedient happy social butterfly. She going through a rebellious period and wearing black and is moody sometimes. He has tried to parent her, but she refuses to come into line.

Please try to understand. I was in a very bad marriage for 18 years before this wonderful man came into my life. It is so hard to let him go. He has never been anything but perfectly wonderful to me and we have never even had a difference of opinion, let alone an argument. I can’t even find anything to fault him on to get mad enough to get me through this.

You make it one day at a time. If tomorrow hurts too much, take it off and stay home and curl up into that ball. It is painful at first, very painful, but time does heal it. I promise. The counselor is a good idea. Just hurt for now. It is OK. Dealing with loss is always scary and difficult. But know this, you are strong enough to survive this episode. That is the truth. And on the other side you will be stronger. But for right now do what you need to do to comfort yourself, as long as you do not hurt yourself. You are strong enough, but for now crying is not such a bad thing. Your child is much more important than any one man. Never, ever forget that. You choose the child. That child still loves you. Let there love get you though this time.

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All The Good Men Are Taken

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

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