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Where is a good place to meet men besides the internet.

In Church?

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I’ve been single for about 3 years now, don’t get me wrong I’ve gone on dates, but nothing to get excited about. I’ve been in a dating rut though, it seems the guys I’ve been meeting are either looking for an easy lay, cheating on their gf or want to get married tomorrow. I could use some good ideas on where to meet smart, attractive, quality men.

Hmmm same here… however quite different for me. I’m not looking for a woman higher than 30. I’m pretty mature and all the girls I meet are to partyish. I’d say if you want maturer men and older go places like them. Bars will probably just be another guy wanting to get laid (maybe.) Try church, library colleges. Who knows I seen people there men and women look more mature than your everyday places. I swear there are men and woman out there that are perfect matches but extremely far away. I guess it all depends on where your at.

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My gf and I have been together for three years straight, then off and on for anther two years. She’s my first gf and the only girl I loved like this (so far). Though I had other gf’s during our two year on and off relationships, I always break up with the others whenever she wants to get back again. Recently we broke up again because she said she was tired of me (again). I love her still, but I don’t want to hurt anymore. I got some advice and my friends told me that what we need is a formal closure. How do you do that? What happens in a closure? Does that really help? How do you do a closure?

If you really love her then honestly you might not ever have a proper "closure". If you love her in your heart that much then probably she will always in some way be a part of your life, whether you are together with her or not. I am a lot older than you I would say from yr pic, but I had a thing like this and everyone thought and I thought that I should get over it. I would just say don’t hope too much for a "closure" because that is not exactly how it is. Just move on with your life. I did a lot to try to achieve a "closure" but it really just made me a horrible and sad person. You can’t say that person never happened in your life, just be glad for the good times you had and hopefully it will get better. Take care and laugh when you can. lol.

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I hear from dudes to meet decent women just around at grocery stores and stuff like that but that never has really worked for me. and also have been told not clubs. so i wanna ask the ladies where they go to meet men and are most willing to give them the time of day. i just want to hear it from the source. Where would i meet decent women?

simply–in the good places.
no women is gonna meet a serious guy in a night club.. or a strip party. Just using that as an example.. it’s all about the location..Good and decent men hangs out in decent places..

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been with bf on and off for almost 3 years (last 2 years solid-no breakups). we’ve had our issues due to me having PMDD (caused alot of our fights-now takes meds and see a counselor) and him being too used to being a bachelor. i’m 28 w/3 girls part-time that he loves very much and he’s 29 never been married or lived w/a gf.

we’ve been seeing a counselor for a couple of weeks now to help sort out the little hangups that are causing our arguments. he was totally agreeable to going. but in the sessions, he seems scared of having a "timeline" of me and the kids moving in w/him being put on him. the counselor asked him what he thought should happen if we didnt fight anymore-his anwers were to have the kids spend more time at his house during the day and eventually all of us spending the night there. but he stated that just b/c we were all spending the night didn’t mean we were going to move in right away.

little more below..
he told the counselor that he wanted to make sure we were all on the same page before moving in together and getting married. i do agree with him and think his heart is in the right place and i truly think the reason it’s moving so slow is b/c the arguments are setting us back (which he said they were) but a small part of me worries that he’s afraid to commit. what should i think?!!

he does help me get the kids from school each week and tells them he loves them all the time. we are carving pumpkins and going trick or treating with the kids tomorrow so he spends lots of time with them. i see him about every other weekend alone w/no kids. most of my stuff is at his house and i’ve had a key now for about 2 years….

Sounds like a bit of fear of commitment mixed with more fear of what has happened with you in the past. He’s sticking it out with you and your kids, but is not sure about the future.

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How long were you broken up for and why did you break up?

My ex and I have been talking and hanging out lately, very casually, but I think I might still have feelings for him, and I think he feels the same way. We broke up because we were both going through a stressful time and were just arguing too much, so I’m worried we’ll end up the same way again.

Has it ever worked out for anybody getting back together with their ex?

I met my husband when I was 12 years old. He was my 1st real boyfriend and 1st guy I had sex with. We went out for two months shy of 2 years and I broke up with him. We then got back together and broke up. Few years went by, we moved on but stayed in touch. I got married to someone else. 5 years later my marriage fell apart and we got back together. We will be married for 11 years next June.

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We hang out like once in like three weeks.

easy, "i miss you".

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:’( it was long distance and I couldnt handle it and he’d been acting distant and funny so I broke up with him but now I miss him and I’m lonely and I want him back :’( but I can’t have him coz he’s gone what should I do?

remember why you broke up with him. could you handle it now?
you should move one and let him move one. if i was you i’d go out with my friends and try to meet someone new. don’t rush into anything though: rebound relationships often aren’t for the best.
i know it is hard letting go of someone but you broke up with him for a reason and i think its best if both of you moved on.
good luck =)

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im between the confused and angry stages of a break up and i need some good music to help me get through it

I’m Not Missing You – Stacie Orrico
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIbrl-cDB6E

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