Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me a week and a half ago after weve been together for four months. She since her exams started she hasnt felt we connected anymore like we used to even a few weeks before the exams. She said that she was maybe even using the exams as an excuse not to to do somefin wif me she was that confused. She said it was the hardest thing she ever done in her life and has been crying for ages about it and was almost crying on the day, her eyes filled up. I told her I cared a lot about her and she said she cared about me and wants to be friends but she doesnt no how that would work since we never were friends. I am her first bf and believe that we drifted apart because we didnt spend enough time alone as a couple.And think she made a rushed decision because of exams and stress, Im disappointed she didnt try to make it work as well. Anyway i respected her decision and decided maybe she needs space so I havent contacted her since. I didnt want to wait around for her and have been trying to get on with life. my friends girlfriend is actually one of her friends but is annoied at her and shocked for breaking up with me and nt trying to make it work so shes not going out of her way to talk to her. The problem I have is today I found out that my ex is actually now going out with another guy. I was surprised it hurt me as much as it did, and have been so confused and shocked now at hearing this. my friend seen her bebo and someguy is now her other half and have been sending flirty comments. my friends girlfriend then asked her and my ex says she is going out with someone. Now I really am confused and don’t get how she could go out with someon1 so soon. Im getting a hole pile of thoughts going through my head. Im now getting the impressions she cheated on me for him and that she never did care about me?:s. she was very upset about breaking up with me and I didnt think she would b able to date again for a while. she is also going to france in half a month for a month. she is still in the middle of the exams which end next week that she needs 3As for. I just dont get it and am so confused. She def didnt seem to be the sort of girl that would cheat r do something like that so quickly saying I am her first boyfriend and she was extremely upset and she said that she cared about me. my mums even surprised :s im just so confused right now. she hasnt contacted me i avent contacted her I signed in msn once nd she went straight off. she also put pics of us up together on bebo the day after the breakup from the night b4 and kept her status the same:S.im so confused.would she be trying to make me jealous r anything?i get the impression now she never cared about me, cheated on me, lied to me about the break up and everything else and she didnt seem to be that sort of person to do that :S.ive been trying to move on and was prepared for this but not so soon and it did hurt more than I thought.is this normal for girls to do:S
ive also been hearing that she has been doing terrible in her A levels and getting realy upset, which also hurts me cause I still care about her. my friends girlfriend that is friends with her basically says my ex is turning into a waster. I dont get it she just seems to have completely turned her life upside down.

she was probably really confused and possibly felt that you didn’t care enough about her…maybe. she probably had other stuff going on in her life, did you ever ask her what was wrong? you need to send her an email/txt/voicemail telling her she is a good person and you miss her and you hope she’s doing alright. because this way she would know you still care about her, she’s feels happier, she might realize she shouldnt have broke up with you and also she would think about you(thou she probably does). good luck!

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Can’t get her to call me back. I called twice then gave up, I am giving up. She only texts me back. Why do some girls do this? Cowardice? Don’t want to fight? Really angry? Why can’t people have the decency to call back after all those times together? Are the replies by text a good sign though?

for some, especially women , it is easier to have a clean break and walk away then to drag it out

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Okay so my girlfriend broke up with me just about two months ago because she said my randomness (wich most say is funny and one of my highlights) emberasses her really bad from time to time and she said its like i don’t care that sometimes i bother her (i seriously tried to not emberasse her but she doesn’t think i tried at all) which eneded up in her breaking up with me. So after nearly two months of no contact (by the way we’re both 16) she texted me today and we started a conversation and shared laughs etc etc. Then the conversation led to her saying she broke up with me because she said i had given up on our relationship (which i can understand why she might have thought that) and we had a lengthy talk about how i was sorry and how i wanted more than anything to be with her and then all of a sudden after it seemed like maybe she wanted me back she just ended the conversation saying in the middle of the talk about us "bye see you on tuesday" (we go back to school on tuesday and we’re in the same classes). So was she just trying to have a heart 2 heart with me to be friends or is she considering taking me back or what do you think the conversation including the abrupt ending means? Please help me, i’m having such a hard time through this ordeal and i literally have spent nights crying

naww poor you!
that is all so confusing,
but i understand it all completely!

i think she couldve been having a heart to heart converstaion with you..
but i also think that she might want you back.
us girls dont really have heart to heart conversations with our ex’s unless we still like them or want them back.
well most girls.
maybe you should ask her?
or if your too uncomfortable to ask her if she wants you back, wich i completely understand why.. then just talk to her, and if she’s telling you lots of things, and any secrets or personal stuff.. then thats a sign that she likes you.
girls dont just have heart to heart conversations with any guy. when they wna have a heart to heart conversation its with the guy she trusts most.
goodluck hun, hope i helped you!
and i hope all goes well!

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what is the best way to get my ex back. she left me 8 months ago. We were together 5 years. She left because she said she felt neglected. Now that she is gone I realize my mistake and I have been working on myself for the better. We still talk through IM. I know there are other fish in the sea but I do really love her. I know I messed up by neglecting her. I just need al second chance to show here how great she is. help with some good advice.

Its valentines day so all is fair today! show up at her house with flowers and chocolates. Tell her u love her and miss her and that u are sorry for being an idiot before but that u have realized that shes all you need. Tell her you are willing to make it up to her and ask her for a second chance. Kiss her passionately because you mean it,right? so there Simple

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It has been a lil over a year since she left me. It was my fault. I Love her just as much today as I did when we were together. So I need some good ways to get her back from female’s or from guys who have been through the same thing

Too late…it’s over.

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I love my ex how can I win her love back. How much time does a girl need when she says she needs time by herself to sort out her emotions?

It would be good if there was a set amount of time that worked for everyone but some people need longer than others. How you split up may also be a factor in how much time she needs.

Avoid pressuring her and let her come round in her own time.

There’s some tips and advice below that you may find helpful too …

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George's decision to invite his girlfriend over to Zed's apartment to handle a break up becomes ill-fated when he find's out Zed is also planning to break up with his girlfriend. The two guys scheme to find a way to come out the better man.

Duration : 9 min 28 sec

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Man have you broken up with a girl and she keeps your stuff? man wussup with that?

Lyrics:

It’s been so long since I’ve seen your face
So long since I’ve been to first base.
*strike 3 your out*
I really miss the feel of your kiss.
But can I have back my things before
I get really pissed?

You had my heart, my soul, my attention
But you walked out my life with my CD collection.

We’re Breaking Up!

Breaking up is hard enough (oh oh oh oh)
Say you had nothing but I called your bluff.
You got my sweaters, my hat…
I can’t find my cat! *meow*
The Hardest Part Of Breaking Up
is getting Back Your Stuff.

Yea 2gether’s in the house
Put your hands in the air
’cause we’ll make ya bounce c’mon yea.[x2]

So tell me girl, do I have to say please
or do I have to inform the police.
*We have you surrounded*
There was a time when I’d trust you alone.
I’d call you up girl, but you took my phone.

You borrow stuff every time I turn my back.
*hey that’s mine!*
I can’t believe I went out with a KLEPTOMANIAC!!

We’re breaking up!

Breaking up is hard enough (oh oh oh oh)
Say you had nothing but I called your bluff.
You got my sweaters, my hat…
I can’t find my cat! *meow*
The Hardest Part Of Breaking Up
is getting Back Your Stuff.

[Spoken]
Man you ever break up with a girl
And she keeps your stuff?
Man, What’s up with dat?!
I dunno man, something wrong!
Ya know what I’m sayin?
Something wrong with dat….

Yea, Uh Mickey Parke up in this mug
Here we go one, two
Yea, Yea, Yea
U plus ME, it doesn’t equal us.
You took my car now I gotta take the bus.
I thought I had a girl that I could trust.
I guess I never knew my calculus!

Breaking up is hard enough (oh oh oh oh)
Say you had nothing but I called your bluff.
You got my sweaters, my hat…
I can’t find my cat! *meow*
The Hardest Part Of Breaking Up
is getting Back Your Stuff. [x2]

Duration : 0:3:16

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