Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

2 nights ago my (ex)girlfriend of a year and 3 months broke it off with me, she says that she fell out of love with me and feels like a relationship is to stressful at the moment. shes 18, soon to be 19 and i am 21.
She told me that she wants to go on a break, but its also sort of a break up, she did not specifically say how it was going to work out, but she just doesnt want to see eachother or talk for a while so she can see where she is emotionally in a while..This is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through, before her my longest relationship was 3 months. I am still completely in love with her and it just hurts so horribley, I feel like crying every single 10 minutes of the day. I feel suicidal but I am not going to kill myself, or leave my family like that.

She texted me the night after which was really suprising, she just said "hey, i dont know why i texted you but i just wanted to say hey." and I just said "okay, well i didnt text you all day or night because i am giving you your space and time that you need" and she never texted me back after that, or the whole day yesterday either.. She sent a text to my friend saying "I have to get used to not texting him, im just used to doing that every night."

Anyway I dont know how to be hopeful, I would rather look at things the worst then for the better so i dont get my hopes up. It hurts so F***** bad, and just dont understand how she could do that, I mean the signs have been there for a while and i should have relalized.
She changed all her myspace and facebook status’s to single..even though we might only be on just a break, but like i said it really does feel like a breakup because she was never specific.

I’m just wondering if it seems like i should be hopeful, just give her space and not text or call her at all and just wait and see if she will do it. Like i said this is the hardest thing I have ever been through in my life..

don’t worry about it too much. if you’re hoping for the best and driving yourself suicidal because of this, its best to just let it go.
of course its not going to be easy, and i understand, but in time you’ll see that she’s just another girl, and it’ll take some time for you to heal, but don’t worry, everything will be ok :]
my opinion is that just leave it alone for now. if she wants to come back in the relationship, then she will. relax and spend more time with friends and don’t let her get in with your happiness.

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hey people , pls advice me on some tips to get my ex girlfriend back? Useful tips on how to make her love me back again. her love now is unstable. thats why we broke. its been 6 weeks. i think its time i do something about it. to all , pls help me

perhaps u should try to let her rest 4 awhile…. and may be give her a pleasant surprise that will cheer her up and most probally she will feel grateful towards u and might accept u back

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what is the best way to get my ex back. she left me 8 months ago. We were together 5 years. She left because she said she felt neglected. Now that she is gone I realize my mistake and I have been working on myself for the better. We still talk through IM. I know there are other fish in the sea but I do really love her. I know I messed up by neglecting her. I just need al second chance to show here how great she is. help with some good advice.

Its valentines day so all is fair today! show up at her house with flowers and chocolates. Tell her u love her and miss her and that u are sorry for being an idiot before but that u have realized that shes all you need. Tell her you are willing to make it up to her and ask her for a second chance. Kiss her passionately because you mean it,right? so there Simple

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I love her so much, but she doesn’t treat me right. Although she is what makes me happy, how can i get over her. (I haven’t broken up with her yet)

1. Try to correct your problems. If she’s not treating you right, sit down and discuss this. Tell her how bad you feel when she says this or that. She needs to change for the better, OR

2. Think of how bad you feel and focus on it. Realize that this is what truthfully isn’t making you happy and then feel free to let her go. Move ahead by yourself, doing whatever it takes to make you happy again (activities, friends)

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We hang out like once in like three weeks.

easy, "i miss you".

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So i was going out with this girl for 2 years and eleven months. For the past year i will admit that i didnt treat her the way she diserved to be. She broke up with me about 4 weeks ago, but when she did we decided to go on a break instead. She said she needed time, and needed to clear her head. So me being the impatient person that i am, I sufficated her with love letters, texts, phone calls etc. So eventually she said "im done with you, you havent gave me any time at all, I dont want anything to do with you" I try to tell her that i will change my ways, but she doesnt seem to care, she just gets angryer when i try to talk to her. I havent talked to her since she told me that, its been about a week. Any tips or advice on what to do now?

you need to give this girl space! she will never miss you if you are always in her face, calling, texting, iming, whatever.

the only way to deal with a woman who breaks up with you is to give them EXACTLY what they ask for! as soon as a girl even hints with me that she is bored, confused, unsure, or whatever, I GIVE HER NOTHING…

NO ATTENTION (this means no calls, visits, whatever)
NO GIFTS
NO LETTERS, NOTES, LOVE POEMS, etc.
NO giving her messages through her friends

NO NOTHING!

The best way to "UNCONFUSE" a girl is to leave them alone! if they want to close the gap, THEY will make it clear they want to spend more time with you. If you chase them, they will keep running!

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well my girl and i were dating for over a year and we had a falling out. we realized we loved each other too much to be apart. she is now sayin that since i broke her heart i need to do something special for her for her missed birthday. any suggestions out there? i would like opionions from both sexes

Dear friend Mr. Ross,
Be good friends and grow up to the age of maturity to accept each other as life partners in a marriage relationship to create a family bearing children into the generations of mankind on the earth.

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. (Holy Bible Colossians 3:20)

Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. (Holy Bible 1 Corinthians 7:2)

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Well… I had a friend who broke up with her bf but she was insistent that they continued being friends. It took eleven months and another relationship on his part before he realized that he still loved her… thanks to the constant speaking they did… now they’re together.
The friendship route once you put no pressure on, usually works. But remember why is she an ex to begin with….? Is it possible that rekindling the flames isn’t such a good idea,

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