Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

What hobbies or places i can go to ease my mind off of her? Im trying to get my head right for finals next week but i keep on thinking of her…
and No getting back with her is not an choice so please dont say that.. thanks

Working out always helped me through breakups. Do something physical, like punch a punching bag, or ride a bicycle. I think that doing something that keeps you focused on the task at hand is the best.

Maybe after finals join a club, or volunteer. Doing something like that will help you meet new friends and keep your mind off your breakup.

But I don’t think that anyone can quickly recover from a relationship that meant a lot to them. If it was meaningful, then there will be pain. Just take things slow and be happy with yourself completely before you start dating again.

Good Luck!!

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The one that involves leaving your computer and going out and talking to women.

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Is she trying to cleanse it from herself? She had an affair with a coworker, and she was dating a guy for nearly ten years at the time.

I guess she wanted to be upfront and honest with you so your relationship would be completely open. Ask her why she felt she had to tell you……..geez we don’t know

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she say she falls in and out of love easily and that while at college she started to fall out of love with me. then she came back and fell back in love wih me but she thinks she should be single. or at least not with me. how do i respond to this? should i try to win her over and be really sweet and make her love me and remind her why she loves me or just let her go?

yeah its easy to fall in and out of love until you find the right person but shes probably, most likely, just saying that so that when ur in college she can sleep around and i bet u ANYTHING that if u break up and after college or somethin shell come crawlin back butyeah shes probably just sayin that so she wont hafta cheat or anything but i think u should let her go because yeah its hard to be away from ur bf/gf but if they TRUELY loved you then theyd wait with no problem except missing u

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We have been going out for 3 weeks, and have almost nothing to talk about anymore. What are some things to talk about or should we break up?

i don’t think you should break up with her because you cant find anything to talk about.
Talk to her about things she likes, things you like, things you have in common, things you think she might like? anything really. just don’t say anything stupid.

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Well about a week ago my girlfriend of a little over a year broke up with me. We broke up mainly because I had some trust issues that I had to work on and she felt it would be better if we both took some time off to grow but we could still be friends. I love this girl more than anyone I have ever been with before and this breakup has been the hardest one of my life. I would do anything to get her back (which I would never do for any other ex) so I decided it would be better to tackle my own issues head on not just for her but for myself as well. The thing is I really feel that this breakup has shown my issues in a different light then ever before and I truely feel I can learn from it and overcome them. I want to overcome them with her (my ex). Additionally I have shown her (not just told her which I have) that I am taking steps to overcome these issues. Not only that she calls and texts me everyday since and tells me goodnight and asks me what I am doing that night and such. She also appreciates me showing her I am taking the steps to fixing my issues. My question is all this contact (I hardly ever iniate the contact) a sign that she is reconsidering the breakup or is she just merely being friendly?
Almost forgot she tells me she had told me she still loves me. Now I do not know if that is as a friend or what but if that is at all significant I thought you (the readers) should know

I’m not sure but I think she is being a supportive friend to you (but not romantic).

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I think my ex girlfriend is giving off some signs that she wants me back? Tell me what you think:

-Shes texted, or called EVRERYDAY since the break up, for no reason sometimes. Sometimes its just to tell me funny things. Once it was to ask if i remembered when she backed into my car. Of course i do!

- I told her that i would drop off something in her mailbox. she said can i get it from your work? I said yes but id be more than happy to drop it off. She insisted on coming to get it… even tho her friend was on the way to her house, and she had to work in an hour. when she got here i gave it to her and walked away. She said wait, can i have a hug? I hugged her. She told me she missed me and said i smell and look good. I believe she just wanted to see me.

- during the above time, she asked if she looked good, because she has been tanning.

- She told me that she has lost weight, been nervous, had no apetite and hasnt been sleeping well. I said its probably the flu, and she no its happened every since the breakup.

- she texted me this morning "wake up!" when i needed to be up. She said she couldnt sleep.

This all started the weekend after we broke up. She broke up with me because we never did anything anymore (got routine). She has gone out and drank and partied, but always is contacting me the day after and every day for that matter. She has seen that i have been going out and partying.

Do you think she is realizing how much she loved me? We were together for 3 years, and i want her back.

Why do you want an ex back? You should move forward, not keep going backwards. She will only continue her ways. She won’t change. You’ll still be miserable. She’ll still accuse you of doing nothing. Find someone who won’t b*tch to you so much.

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I have a friend that has been unhappily married for 6 six years and they have two young daughters. Her marriage sucks and recently she met a woman who she has fallen in love with (the love between the women is mutual). She’s told her husband and he’s being very patient in hopes that this is a phase she’ll get over and return to him. Since she has children with her husband, she is more concerned about their feelings than anyone else’s. Should she pursue her relationship with the woman or go back to her unhappy marriage for the sake of her kids?

deffiantly stay with the husband.. if her mother left for another women the kids would be devestated and a little embarassed and weirded out i think she should stick through it for the kids

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I’m going to boot camp in a month and i i have a girlfriend i’m leaving what should i do break up on stay with her she said she will wait??

Stay with her why would you break up with her???

I think you should stay with her, if she is willing to wait it shows you care, And i hate this guy thing were they have to break up so they can do what they like when they are away,,, and as soon as you guys are back you’s wanna hook up again,, Not cool!!!

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I was planning to go to a baseball game. my girlfriend coaches the team but today in school i was trying to make plans with her for the weekend and she started begging me not to show up for the game. I asked her several times why she doesn’t want me to come and she didn’t answer. now I’m all confused so should i still go or not.

(now two weeks ago when the game was scheduled she couldn’t wait to show me off !)

What would you do?

I wouldn’t go – but I’d sure be curious.

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