Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

Her girlfriend of a year left her for another . My friend keeps stating the fact that she never got closure… Does anyone know how to get closure without the person beiing there with her?
My friends partner just took her things and was gone. My friend believes for another woman. It’s been a year. There was never closure just up and left. There is no communication whats so ever. Can’t get in touch with her. My friend keeps saying i didn’t get closure. My friend can’t seem to get into another relationship because of this. I hate to see my friend suffer.

Yeah. She has to stop asking herself if it was something SHE did and accept it was something HE did. Once she can do that, she will be able to let go.

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One of my best friends is stuck in an emotionally/mentally abusive relationship with a controlling boyfriend. He has "grounded" her from computer or phone use in the past and, with her being over an hour away at college (they attend the same university), I’m starting to feel a bit helpless. She asked me today how she could end it in light of the same school problem, and I don’t have any idea how to respond. Help? Please and thank you, it would mean a lot.

Domestic abuse is never okay, and never a situation anyone should have to go through alone. The fact that your friend is still able to even ask you for advice gives me hope, because controlling relationships have usually segregated all friends and family at this point. The first thing your friend needs to do is tell someone in authority about the situation. Relationships like this one rarely end easily, and she needs to be aware, it will probably get worse before it gets better. She needs your support more than ever during this time, and if she has a family: mother, father, sisters, brothers, who can help support her, now is the time. The school she attends needs to be made aware of what is going on. This is not a light situation, (shall we remember the Chris Brown Rihanna situation) and teachers need to be aware of what is going on. I would also suggest going to a school counselor. These men and woman are trained to help your friend deal with this tough situation, and she is going to need to seek help outside of her inner circle, from someone who is unbiased and who can offer her professional help. Abuse, both emotional and physical carries baggage for years, and it is vital that your friend feel loved, cherished and that her friends and family rally for her. It is going to be hard because victims of abuse feel shattered, unworthy and ugly and many times are suckered back into the unhealthy relationship, because they do not know anything else. Be there for her, encourage her, and have her get some real help. You are a good friend, and I know you will help her weather this difficult and ugly storm. Good luck!

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My boyfriend is very emotional, and we get along great, but 75% of the time he’s arguing with me and over reacting about things I did that are supposedly wrong. I need to break up with him but I’m not sure how because I’m scared he’ll over react once again and yell at me and freak out on me

Forget all this stress, just end it with him and if he can’t be a man about it then let it be. Relationships are sometimes not worth the drama.

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They loved each other, but went through hell like most couples do. They just recently broke up and now the guy is off dating another chick so soon. (Within a couple of weeks I think)
Why?
Whats his deal?

Anything Psychological about this?
Thanks for the information guys. I feel the same way as everyone here as replied.

They weren’t in love, at least he wasn’t and your friend fooled herself to believe she was in love, you kids don’t know what love is that’s why half of all marriages end in divorce

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We have been going together for 3 years and have a 1 year old daughter. He is still madly in love with his ex baby mama (which they have 2 kids together) he is in denal. They send each other pics and letters via email and they talk on the phone all day long, and even watch tv togther over the phone. What does this seem like to you?

Black Barbie,
If your as Beautiful as your name is. This seems to me like you need to take your baby and move on and find yourself someone who will love you the way he loves this woman, no matter how much he is hurting you! Or no matter how much you love this man! It’s time to move on Honey! He’s obviously obsessed with her! This should be a very welcome sign for you to do the same to him! Let him see how it feels! And leave his Sorry Azz!!! Good Luck to you and your baby! Believe me, there is someone out there just for you to! It’s obviously NOT HIM!! Move on, I would! I wouldn’t put up with what you’ve put up with! I dont care how cute he may be!! It’s time to make a new start for you and your daughter! Believe me, there’s plenty of men out there who will except your child from another man. That will not stop any man from falling in love with you and your child. Trust me on this one, they are out there!! Just make the most of leaving and do it!! Get out before he can hurt you anymore than he already has!

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My friend received a dog as a gift,they broke up and now the bf is asking her to chip in the payments for the dog. He told her that if she doesn’t pay the dog shop will take the dog back? Is this possible?
my guess is that whoever bought the dog(the boyfriend) in this case will owe the money and if he doesn’t pay the amount/debt/account will become delinquent and will go to collections? What are the legal ramifications of this?

and this is the reason why you shouldnt give pets as gifts……

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