Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I love my husband very much and his reason was because we fight too much, but I think that is something that can be fixed and we could make our marriage better. I do not want to give up so soon. We have only been married for six months now. Please help on what I should do or say to him. Thanks

I agree. 5 months is silly. However, you both need to willing to work on it. Conseling is the only way to go. You both need to learn how to resolve things without fighting.

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15 days staying together after marriage on november 30th 2008, my wife is now staying at her house citing the reasons that I dont love her and didnt had sex with her and even not kissed her atleast once. Its true because I behaved like that because of some misunderstandings which i came to know later. Now, she is asking for divorce and planning to file petition but I want to save the marriage. She told me that she will prove that she is virgin even after staying together 15days after marriage.
Is it true that the court will allow divorce on being vergin or not having sex for 15 days after marriage? If she says in court that I’m not able for sex, is there any procedure to prove my ability? If I’m against mutual divorce and really want to save marriage, what procedures should I follow legally? How long will it take her to get divorce if she is not going to change her mind?

Firstly engage a sensible lawyer to guide you rightly for matrimonial law in India. Secondly the you both cannot for the general rule apply for divorce even by mutual consent within first year of marriage unless there exist an exceptional case of hardship or depravity,which doesn’t seems in your case. As far not indulging in sex for fifteen days is no big issue for making it a case of mental cruelty of depriving of the sexual bliss as a married spouse & causing breaking of the matrimonial home. The none consummation of marriage can be claimed for annulment of marriage as a ground if there has been wilful refusal or the impotency of the respondent in this case the husband. You don’t seems to be impotent medically or otherwise but due to circumstances & misunderstanding could not attain penal erection for sexual intercourse,this is only a temporary phase which doesn’t amount to complete incurable impotency,hence cannot be made a ground for annulment of the marriage on this ground. Your wife need marriage counselling not from a marriage counsellor only but even a sensible lawyer who will make her understand the legal issues involved in the marriage which she seems to be not well informed so engage one good lawyer to do this work for you & don’t forget to pay his consultancy fee.

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