Tips from females on ending a long term relationship?
Sunday, February 21st, 2010My girlfrind and I have been together for three years. I do love her, however we are not right for each other. We don’t fight, or argue much. The only complaints I really have is that she is a very messy person, who doesn’t clean up after herself or her son. I used to do the majority of the housework, but I just don’t care anymore. She can’t cook, clean, or do much of anything on her own. She is very co-dependant, and she doesn’t have any friends. I have tried to end it before, but she is very good about making me feel bad or feel sorry for her. I have decided to end our relationship for good this time. But I could use some advice on the best way to end a relationship with a very emotional and sensitive girl?
Well either way she will be very emotional and sensitive. Tell her the truth… that you don’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with her and that you don’t want to waste each others time any longer. Then leave it as that. Don’t say anything like "oh we can still be friends" because that will just drag it on. End it with no more communication.
Off the record…I feel kind of bad for the kid involved. I don’t know the whole situation but if her child was close to you..he might take it hard.
