Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

all into to me until he gets over her. We only went out for 2 months. I was in love with him. I saw him today to get my stuff back and he basically said if i were by his side he could eventually forget about her. I want to be with him but then i realize that if we do get back together than we will have trust issues. What should i do.

2 months in teen years is a lifetime. However, you will see that as you become more mature it takes longer than 2 months to really develop a loving trusting relationship. Move on and enjoy dating. Bing tied down too young in life takes a lot of the fun out of life. Besides, it sounds like this guy wants his cake and you. He may want her, can’t have her, so he’s "settling" for you. Don’t be used. Move on.

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I am going through a breakup. I’m trying to stay busy, make plans, call friends, watch funny movies, exercise, etc. But I still have this overwhelming feeling like my chest in caving in and the walls around me are closing in on me.How can I ease this pain and make these feelings go away? I can’t stand the idea of having to come to my empty house and be alone. That is when the bad feelings are the worse. I know I have to keep busy, but I also want to be able to be at my house alone and not feel this terrible pain. Please any advice will help! Thank you.

Do things that you could not do when he was there. Reclaim your space!
I know that this is a cliche but breaking up can be a new beginning and being alone allows you to learn more about yourself and prepares you for the next love, when it’s time.

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I’m just trying to start piecing my own life together again after we broke it off yesterday. It was a mutual breakup but it started by myself because of trust issues on both sides. Just looking for advice on how to network in a new community and lifestyle (Being single) so I can have friends to do activities with.

Any advice is helpful. Thanks

Best thing to do is to just get out there and do it. If you have other friends, or co-workers, try and see what they are getting into and tag along. Its really rough when you end a relationship. And it takes some time to get over. One rule though, don’t get into anything romantic/emotional with someone too quickly. We tend to maake mistakes in our ‘rebound’ period. Just try and go out and have a good time. Whether that is at the gym, club, movies, etc. If you like to dance, hop on the internet and see what the night life is about and good places to go.

If you are in your own place, throw a little get together and invite friends/co-workers and mingle a little bit.

Thats my 2 cents

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Everyone told me it was the best thing to do, and I know that, because I was not respected. However, the house is empty at night, it is scary and dark and lonely..how can I feel safe? I have friends, but I am talking about nights. I have a roommate, but she leaves on the weekends to be with her boyfriend, so I am alone in the house, we just broke up this last Thurs. Any advice appreciated

get a pet to keep you company. you’ll sleep better at night too cuz you’ll feel like the pet is watching over you.

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