Do men recover faster from a break up?
Tuesday, July 6th, 2010I broke up with my boyfriend according to him he was totally in love right just before he broke up with me, its been only three weeks and on his myspace says that he’s "starting to enjoy himself again" I still dealing with the break up pretty bad and not able to move on yet. How could he move on so fast?? any ideas?? you think he wrote that on his myspace just for me to read it and give the impression he’s having lots of fun?? please help
I can only speak for myself but for me it is tough.
I returned from Vietnam in 1970. The woman I left, the woman I loved had moved on while I was ducking bullets and dodging mortar rounds. Seldom does a day pass that I don’t think of her. I mostly wonder if she is happy. I hope so, I let her go because I loved her, not because I was angry. Perhaps if I had been angry it would have been easier. I did marry and I have children but I also have the demons that was that relationship. I am now approaching the end of my life and still those demons haunt me. It would not surprise me if she was the last thing I think of in this life.
You may want to move on in spite of the situation; not to hurt him but maybe to help yourself. You are the only one who can make that decision. I hope you can rid yourself of the demons, they are very heavy baggage and they will always be there. It is a matter of whether you carry them with you of if you can store them safely away in the attic of your memories.
Good luck, I hope it works out for you.

