Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

My ex and I broke up about 1 1/2 months ago. The reason: he had been feeling miserable that he hadn’t been able to say that he loved me back. (I never wanted him to say the "L word" back, and I think I may have said it prematurely; I just wanted the affectionate, goofy nerd back that I had met)

Since then, we have had some conversations. They’ve been mostly been IM’s, and I’m the one who’s been initiating the conversations. He’s responded right away and we’ve had some pretty basic conversations, nothing emotionally heavy. However, anytime he’s online, he never makes the move or effort to IM me. So recently, I’ve stopped for a few days.

I want to call him. I miss him dearly, but I won’t bombard him with messages of desperation or sadness. I just don’t know how to get the message across to him that I just want him back for what he is. (and no he’s not a horrible person. at all)

So I need some tips/advice on how to bring an ex back or even how to move on from this situation. Thanks alot.

I think you may have scared this one off…Don’t expect someone to say i love you, isn’t it better when they just say it and mean it…its not forced. Be careful, take it easy with this guy, sorry to say but i think you scared dude off and you wont get him back.

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this question is plain and simple. How do u get your ex-bf to come back, even when he has another girlfriend? I’m desperate, and no one’s giving me answers. I need serious help. Anyone out there with advice?

well, first of all, don’t be THAT girl that tries to break up a relationship, no matter how long they’ve been together. but you can still talk to him and be yourself – if anything, that will be what makes him come back (if he does). the reason he was with you is because he obviously likes your personality and looks. throw him a text every couple of days asking him what he’s doing and how he is. maybe you could talk to him about something you both like that you read or saw somewhere. most importantly, let him know that you still care about him and are there for him, even if he’s taken. but don’t let yourself be a doormat for him and let him be a jerk. if he does that, then let him go…

just what i think..sorry for the long reply! good luck.

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