What are the most effective ways to deal with a break up?
Sunday, January 31st, 2010I am going through a breakup right now with someone I love very much. We were together for four months and suddenly out of the blue she feels that she needs to be single and "find herself". We had/have a great relationship. We rarely fought and we got along great. I don’t get it.
A part of me feels like its not over but who knows?!
Anyway, I feel like I am counting the seconds just to get to the next minute. Its hard to breathe and I am simply…hurting. What are some effective things I can do to help ease the pain?
I’ve cleaned the whole house and did laundry….GAH.
Have a couple drinks out with friends…I’m not saying get drunk, just loosen up a bit.
I was with a guy for 7 years and I left him, he broke my heart and I let him go, he begged and cried to come back for a year…but he is with someone who is better for him now and I am too.Sometimes breakups lead to better things.
