Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I mean, I’m taller then him(I’m 6′2 and he’s 5′7), and I’m better looking and hotter then him.

Why did she dump me for that twat?

Arrogant much?

Beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes cleat to the bone.

Women are at least as interested in who someone is, not just what they look like

Luck

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He dumped me so suddenly from a three year relationship, out of the blue, then he dissappeared. It was months til I heard a word from him so i asked him for a reason, says i dont know,something has changed but i dont know what. I tried to narrow it down and give him examples, eg is there someone else, is it something i did, did you feel restricted and so on. He denied all of it, but still says he doesnt know, i dont know whether if he is hiding something, i told him i need to know the truth and i dont care if it would hurt me or not but he just avoids it. I dont get it? If this is the only reason then how can someone dump their partner for something they dont even know themselves? I just couldnt see this coming, there was nothing wrong, he kept on saying that he loved me and he was happy and there was no change in his behaviour prior to it? And he didn’t even talk about the relationhship at all, even when i tried to talk about it. Im so confused!

*I am dealing with the same situation right now actually.*

.My boyfriend…or I guess ex now? Everything was going fine as far as I was concerned, and then he just quit talking to me out of nowhere for NO reason.

.I did nothing to make him be resentful towards me.
.I never gave him any reason to not talk to me.

…He also told me I love you…etc. and just out of the blue…POOF..it’s like he decided to bail on me and peace out, like it was nothing?!

.**To be honest though, and it’s hard to go on everyday not knowing what it is that you did to him to make him "run away"
.I always wonder, did I do too much, or not enough?
.Did I say something wrong….?

~Let me tell you something though…it’s HARD to just move on from something like that. I know. But you have to.

.And you may never know what you did or said to him, that made him act the way he is. Oh well.

**All you can really do is accept things for the way they are, and don’t try and analyze the situation. I KNOW you did nothing wrong to him, because I didn’t either with my boyfriend. And he did the same thing to me. So I’ve learned to deal with it, and hey if he cannot tell me face to face what the problem is or what I did to him…and talk to me like a mature adult…then he’s not even worth it.

*So just try your best to carry on and do your own things, and let him have his own space. Don’t give him the satisfaction of calling him or texting him…or anything. Don’t talk to him.

.When you quit talking to him, and you basically let him know that you do not need him to survive..etc. Then and only then will he be like "What the hell, she isn’t calling me or texting me or anything?" "I wonder if she’s okay?"

…Then he’ll be calling or texting you.
*Eventually he will come around. You just need to adjust to not talking to him, and resist the temptation to do so.

**I haven’t talked to my boyfriend for days now….he seems to be fine with it b/c I haven’t heard anything to make me think otherwise. And true they won’t always call you or come back to you, but you know that is just the truth you need in order for you to better understand what kind of a person they really are. And that just makes you realize how much he doesn’t care…and how much you don’t need him in your life, because he’s more of an emotional burdon than a lifeline.

.Anyways so don’t stress about him, if he cannot appreciate what a great person you are…especially after all that time you two have been together. Then he’s not worth it.

.Let me know how things turn out.

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after 4 yrs of relationship and telling me there is a possible future; she tells me it was all sex ; but i tell her i would of never done it if i did not love her!

she leaves and marries a guy from the 3rd world country; where she is originally from; and tells me i am a good person and deserve someone better than her , i begged her not to leave me ; she said that i am selfish and want her because i want to get married, and that i am a lier and she cant trust me; and probably cheated on her

now my question is why does someone do something like that to me; and think i want to marry her out of selfishness and then she goes and proposes to a guy she doesnt know after 3 weeks of talking to him online!!!

1)should i feel guilty that i did not tell my parents one time when i went to see her; she says if i lied to my parents i cant be trusted

2) i never cheated on her; i found out she cheated on her fiancee with a guy from work!!! and she sent pics of the guy to her sister (nasty pics FYI).

this is my question; seriously i dont know why u are changing it and using it; when clearly it is my problem and not yours!

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I have been dating a guy that works for the same company as I for about 5 months. Whenever we’re together we have a great time, we’ve never had sexual intercourse with one another, but we’ve had oral sex.

One day he calls and tells me that he really enjoys being with me and that he wants to really give and share himself with me in the spiritual sense…so I thought everything was fine…and we would continue our friendship.

My problem began when I would call him and he wouldn’t return my calls for days at a time. After the holidays he brought my xmas gift to my job a pair of diamond earings and necklace. I eventually brought his gift to my office and gave it to him…I don’t know if he even likes his gift, he doesn’t call anymore, and sometimes he will take my calls and other times he won’t.

Now he keeps telling me he MUST talk to me about something..I don’t know what happened …why did he dump me? I think I deserve an answer but he now tries to avoid me.

He probably found someone. Do take it too hard dear, things like this always happen. I always abide to the saying, if its yours, eventually it’ll be yours!’ It works for me. Cheers>

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