Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

It seems the Christians I meet have met Christ when there has been hardship like recovering from alcohol, drugs divorce and I was wondering exactly why, why if you didnt need Christ than all of a sudden you clung to him, and if it helped you or made life worse was the decision to follow Jesus yours or when you were hurting was he introduced upon you by someone else as the way to ease the pain in your heart.

The opposite happened to me i lost my faith at a time of hardship. i guess life tends to throw us in certain directions. I like to think there is some sort of reasoning behind everything. but personally religion does feel like it acts as a band aid. i try to put my faith in friends and family they dont let u down.

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Ingrid explores her own experiences with difficult relationships in her life, and gives great advise on how to manage them to keep yourself sane!

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I think breakup is easy when you recongnize that the person hurts you , and you have a good reason for the disconnexion to happen ….but, what if the breakup happens in good terms in the sense that you broke because the relationship cannot work because you are incompatible ..!!? u see what I mean …!! I think that breakup like this keeps you link to the person ….What do you think ?

Hell yea I agree. I broke up with this guy and now were are the greatest of friends. We can’t get over each other though. I still love him. All of my other exes ended on a bad note so they didn’t matter. You are smart. So here the trick…break up on bad terms or don’t break up at all!

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Please take the time to read this…

i met a boy last year, we went out and immediately fell in love. we recently broke up after a year of dating. the reason was too much fighting, too many tears, but it wasn’t a harsh breakup we went into it being friends, but every time we hung out sexual things took place, so we cut off all connections with each other.
weeks went by, i met another boy, i knew he would not be anything like the one before but we started going out. a week or two after me and him got together i texted my ex, we left off on a bad note and i wanted to set things strait.
he had hooked up with two girls, which completely crushed me! sure i have a boyfriend but i miss him constantly, and he supposedly misses me. i Had the perfect opportunity to do sexual things with my new boyfriend but i turned him down because i had my ex on my mind.

some more things…
my parents dont like my ex at all, neither do my friends. and i know i dont care what they thing but if my parents have no respect for him i wont be allowed out, only starting more problems…

i just want some advise, maybe help me get over him, or what do you think would be in my best interest.

If it wasn’t working, get over him. You may think he was the best or will be the best, but if it ended because of fighting, he wasn’t. You need a guy that will be there for you always and not fight all the time. Usually, and I know this sounds crazy but, parents know best. I emphasize usually because there are some parents who are completely clueless when it comes to relationships. If your friends don’t like him either, it’s usually for the best reasons, if your parents don’t like him, it could mean they don’t want you dating but when your friends don’t like him either, that usually is a HUGE sign that he’s no good. Good luck with everything, I can only give you what advice from what I have seen happen, so, sorry if it doesn’t help a whole lot. Just use your best judgment and think about what is good for YOU.

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