Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

Troy Byer (author & transformational coach) explains why people cheat and how to avoid being cheated on.

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I think I asked the wrong questions… oops… maybe this one is the one I really need to know.

Go to a doctor and get drugs or therapy. It works.

Don’t get another girlfriend until you’re no longer depressed. Curing breakup with another girlfriend doesn’t really solve the problem (which is, really, self-respect).

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It’s been 4 month, since I’ve discovered my ex-wife was cheating on me. I was devastated and almost had a nervous break-down. I left my job, left everything and went back home. Luckily my family members was there for me. Now we are divorce and I have a lovely girl friend. But we are not staying together. Again I’m all alone here, desperately trying to build my life again.

After all these month, some times memories are still coming back. The way she betray me, things she told etc. And It hurts. I don’t know how to deal with it.

stay single for at least six months, clear your head, learn to love yourself again and don’t blame youself for this. she obviously wasnt worth her weight in beans. time heals all wounds. hard to believe right now, but it’s true. write a song about it!

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Currently I am in High School. Me and my girlfriend broke up a few months ago, and yet I still can get over her. I don’t understand. We were dating for about a year and a half, then there was one week, where we started fighting a ton. She got mad at me, then I got mad at her. And it went back and fourth and back and fourth. So she dumped me. First time I have been dumped. I can’t get over this girl. I am in this depressed stage. Will I ever get over her?

the first breakup is hardest because we have never experienced it before. it hurts our ego, makes us feel unwanted and unloved. but things do happen for a reason, and yes u will get over it. everything that happens to us shapes our character, and makes us stronger and better able to deal with the many life;s experiences we will have to endure throughout our lives.its a learning experience, don’t take it so seriously.

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I started dating my ex when I was nineteen. I’m 27 now. We broke up in January of this year.

Until a couple months ago I was fine. My ex and I still talked and visited each other, and there was this strange comfort in our situation… like we still loved each other and were still committed, just without the stress of living together.

Reality has only recently started to set it. We don’t talk on the phone anymore, we only see each other every couple weeks, and the "I Love Yous" have disappeared. I suspect he is dating again, and I am to the point where I will need to also start dating again soon.

However, the loss is a lot to cope with. I find myself depressed and unmotivated. I’m an active, outgoing guy but I find that all I want to do lately is stay inside, on the computer or watching television. I’m very ‘butch’ and masculine, but I find myself randomly bursting into tears thinking about the breakup.

I don’t want back with him. He was an alcoholic party animal, and I was a hardworking conservative professional. We didn’t click, and the relationship hadn’t been working for a long time.

I just need to know how to move on. I don’t drink, so I don’t have any interest in gay bars. And in general, I am pretty shy and unsure of myself. I’m not looking to jump right back in a relationship… I just want to move past the tears and resume a normal, single life.

Any suggestions on what I can do to get over this?

Set yourself some other goals. Anything Else you wanna accomplish in life that you haven’t yet ? Basically keep yourself busy put something else on your mind rather than think about him and your old times together it will make you depressed. Also it wouldn’t hurt to start making some new friends and potential partners. When we break up (especially if the choice isn’t ours) we tend to think that was the only person for us…When there are alot of other people out there that can make us far more happier than the previous lover. we live and we learn and we MOVE ON…Good Luck sweetie

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Regardless of reasons and past issues. How does a person get over a break up depression? Just need to get out of depression and get on with rising again.

try not to go to places where you went, stop listening to the same music you did together.

get rid of the phrases you guys made up.. couples tend to do that… make up their own phrases and things they say alll the time… don’t remind yourself of the inside jokes you two shared.

throw away all of the things your partner gave you, yes, that includes everything..

focus more on yourself. try exercising and doing things that’ll keep you busy, physically, mentally or both.

OH.. and do NOT cut yourself off from friends.

i know you wouldn’t wanna do any of the above…. but really, you gotta give in to it to get out of it.

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I thought I was over my depression, but it keeps coming back, and I still am uncertain what to do in my life. I feel miserable all the time.
The last time I saw her was in Februray.

Are you depressed over a break-up or has it flowed into other aspects of your life, so that you are just feeling generally depressed. Have you tried refocusing on enjoyable pastimes, maybe start an exercise program or join some clubs? It is normal to be down after breaking it off, but if it goes on for months and effects you whole life then you should go to your doctor for help. You may need an anti-depressant.

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i just recently got into a huge fight with a boyfriend of mine and everytime i hear his name i get upset, we are still friends but things wont ever be the same. i feel like crying all of the time… what can i do to get him off my mind? am i medically depressed?

just keep yourself busy hang out with friends alot.. and do activities.. i dont think your depressed just really hurt.. only time will heal*

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Ideas on how to peacefully coexist and interact with your Ex.

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