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I need help dealing with my 3 1/2 year relationship ending. I love my ex boyfriend, Brandon very much. He transferred to a state university and the same day that he moved into his apartment he decided that it was time to end our relationship. He said it was too stressful (which it really can be). I’m devastated because he usual speaks highly of our relationship and tells me that we will get married when we are finished with college. Now just like a flip of a switch he wants out and wants to meet other people and "enjoy his life". I honestly didn’t see this coming and didn’t realize I was preventing him in any way from enjoying life. I really wanted to be with him for the rest of my life, now I don’t have him at all. I’m extremely depressed, constantly crying whenever I’m not occupying myself. I’ve been out with my friends and have met new people and school started but its still not enough. I feel like a mental case that needs a psychiatrist before I do something harmful to myself. I know may others deal with long relationships ending, if you have any positive advise I would really like to hear it.

I have been in your situation, as I’m sure many others have. I think that’s what helped me get through things, is realizing that it’s something we all go through at one point or another. I think it brought a lot of clarity for me to be aware and understand that we’ve all been hurt, and that if others can endure and overcome such situations, so can I. I know that it’s terribly daunting, and I don’t wish these feelings on anyone. I also felt like I couldn’t think straight after breaking up with the person who I loved immensely. But eventually, I was able to start putting myself and my happiness first, instead of constantly questioning why I couldn’t help to keep things together.

I think it would be helpful for you to think about who he is now rather than who he was when you guys were together. He is obviously not in a place to be in a relationship and has opted to put himself before you. There is no way you would want to remain in that kind of relationship, where someone doesn’t think about your well-being before his. Hopefully, that makes sense to you.

The decision he’s made is ultimately a selfish one. And if you keep that in mind, you’ll realize how important it is to keep true to yourself and eventually you will come across someone who can truly appreciate a relationship with you. Also, you never know, perhaps you guys will resume your relationship later down the line, once time has passed and you both realize what you still mean to each other. Be strong, confident in yourself, and also optimistic for whatever may come. I wish the best for you!

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I am going through a breakup right now with someone I love very much. We were together for four months and suddenly out of the blue she feels that she needs to be single and "find herself". We had/have a great relationship. We rarely fought and we got along great. I don’t get it.
A part of me feels like its not over but who knows?!

Anyway, I feel like I am counting the seconds just to get to the next minute. Its hard to breathe and I am simply…hurting. What are some effective things I can do to help ease the pain?

I’ve cleaned the whole house and did laundry….GAH.

Have a couple drinks out with friends…I’m not saying get drunk, just loosen up a bit.
I was with a guy for 7 years and I left him, he broke my heart and I let him go, he begged and cried to come back for a year…but he is with someone who is better for him now and I am too.Sometimes breakups lead to better things.

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Many months ago, my girlfriend and I (both in our 30s) parted because I was reluctant to go the next step. Two months into her relationship with someone else, I fought to get her back. She lost sleep and couldn’t decide. After many weeks, she came back to me, saying she ended with the new guy because he was much younger and not ready to settle down (I now am). She said my pleading had nothing to do with that break up. We love each other, but now I fear she came back only because she couldn’t have the new guy. I keep wondering whether she delayed because she liked him more, or if the sex was better, etc. (If so, I know she wouldn’t tell me that). My friends think I should just be happy she’s back, and that says it all. How do I get over the jealousy? Girls: Should I assume I compare favorably with the new guy if she is willing to go back to me? I guess I’d hate to be her sentimental or practical choice and him her sexual/romantic choice.

You should probably look into yourself if you really feel comfortable being back with her. If you are bothered by her dating someone else and have issues with what transpired when you weren’t together, there is alot of baggage that won’t go away overnight. When you’re in a relationship, you either have to completely give your trust to someone or not.

If you can’t get over it, you should probably not be with her as it will cause tension in the future. You have to accept what she tells you and not second-guess it. Otherwise, the relationship will not be healthy.

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It’s been 4 month, since I’ve discovered my ex-wife was cheating on me. I was devastated and almost had a nervous break-down. I left my job, left everything and went back home. Luckily my family members was there for me. Now we are divorce and I have a lovely girl friend. But we are not staying together. Again I’m all alone here, desperately trying to build my life again.

After all these month, some times memories are still coming back. The way she betray me, things she told etc. And It hurts. I don’t know how to deal with it.

stay single for at least six months, clear your head, learn to love yourself again and don’t blame youself for this. she obviously wasnt worth her weight in beans. time heals all wounds. hard to believe right now, but it’s true. write a song about it!

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