Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

It depends on the severity of the breakup and how connected you were to the person. The stages of breaking up are the five stages of denial. First you become sad and frustrated. You feel hurt and you feel like you will never get out of your sadness. Then you get angry. It could be that you are angry with yourself, with your ex or just everyone or anyone else around you. Third, you start trying to bargain with yourself or the other person. You think "well maybe we can just be friends" or maybe he’ll come back" or whatever. Fourth you get into a mood of indifference where you don’t know what to do next and your kinda like "whatever I don’t care". Then finally after all this you except your situation and with a positive attitude you move on. How long this process takes is different for every person and situation. You might find yourself repeating some of the steps over again as well. But, eventually it does end and life moves on.

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Should I cut all contact with my ex? – You fight when you see each other – It is painful to see your ex – It keeps you stacked on the past – It disempowers you – Your ex abuses or blames you – If you are a better person when you don’t see them – In 90% of the cases seeing your ex when you are in the break up zone will have that kind of effect! – So, the simplest thing is not to initiate contact, especially if when you initiate contact, you secretly wish for an opportunity to get back together – If you do initiate contact, keep it to the minimal! – Usuallly, more than one short meeting or call a week will polarize your attention far too much on your ex and stop you from exploring new potential relationships

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