Posts Tagged ‘broke’

I financed a quad for my boyfriend and we broke up. Now what can I do to protect myself?

Friday, January 1st, 2010

My ex doesn’t have the credit to take over the financing but he wants to keep the quad and I don’t have a problem with him keeping the quad as long as it doesn’t effect my credit negatively by late payments or simply neglecting to pay. It’s going to take 4 yrs to complete payments.

What can I do to protect my credit? Will getting an agreement notarized work in court if it should happen to go to that extreme?

Let this be a lesson to you…

Moving on – If he is financially responsible and is not the kind of person to wreak havoc on your credit just because he can, it may be ok to leave it as it is. However, keep in mind that YOUR credit is in HIS hands.

If however, you feel that he might be a liablility, you can file a claim against him in court. The details of payment/ownership can be requested by you beforehand or settled there.

A notary has little value in enforcing prompt payment, but it can serve as a written agreement that can later be used in court if necessary. For example: "he didnt comply with this written agreement" etc..,

Thats the best I can do.

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My ex and I broke up 7 months ago and now she back and suddenly wants to talk. What should I do? ?

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

Our breakup wasn’t pretty – it ended as a fight. I don’t think I completely got over her. I tried my best to forget about her, and just when I thought I did, she comes and talks to me again. Does she want to make up? Or does she just want to repair our friendship? Or try our relationship again? I don’t know how to act around her. What should I do if she asks me to get back together?

Maybe she wants to try dating again – or she might just feel bad about the way things ended and wants to clear everything. Either way, you’ve gotta give her a chance and hear her out. That’s just something that exes have to do for each other. Whether you broke up 7 months ago or 7 years ago, there’s still a connection between the two of you that lasts forever, and it means you have to be decent and polite to each other no matter how lousy your relationship was. As for what to do if she asks you back out: think long and hard about it right now, before the two of you meet up. Think about the good times you had, but think about the bad times even more. Is it something you’d be willing to go through again? Good luck.

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What do I do if my ex-boyfriend broke my heart?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Ok so I was going out with this guy,it was only for 4 days but I honestly fell in love with him. He was sweet always telling me he loved me,missed me,wanted me,wanted to see me, and always calling me baby and everything. Now i’m white and he is black (i’m not races) but my school is. Now we both ride the bus and we both get off at a park, and Friday i stayed after with him and we actually acted like a couple.We just held hands played,played with each others hands and I just sat in his arms and he hugged me and never let me go.I was so happy and comfortable there,but I could tell he didn’t feel right,he was so stiff.Saturday I was at a party and he knew and he kept texting me freaking out about me looking at other guys.Today he texted me telling me he needs to think about us and I told him ok. Then he told me he was thing about s** and I was like what the heck.I asked were we stood and he said we were over I was in shock…I didn’t know what to do.I really miss him but he is being a Jackass and I want to cry. I want him to feel the pain he made me feel.Then yesterday he told my friend he was in love with me and he was in to me and he didn’t want anyone but me,I asked if it was a lie and he told me no and I asked how you go from in love one day to not in love the other day.I dont know what do to.How can i make him feel the pain he caused me,I don’t want to get on the bus Monday and have to see him.It will brake my heart.What should i do?

c’mon girl! Dont be revengeful.It’s going to be hard but get over him! Thats all you can do.
If you try getting even he’s going to know you still care and he wins.
The best way to hurt him is to move on. Forget him. Live your life.

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What do i do when i broke up with my ex and am dating another girl, but am still in love with my ex?

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

We broke up with each other, but i still love her. i dont know if i should just move on and stay with my girlfriend, since i dont know if my ex will take me back and forgive me. i am stuck between two girls.

Be clear in whatever you do, don’t be undecided. If you really love her, go back to her as she may also be feeling the same thing.

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I broke up with my ex bf and now i am struggling with my career. I am still looking for a better job ?

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

At 33 I dont feel like having a bf again. I prefer to concentrate on looking for a better job. I like to be independent in financial matters before going into a new relationship. Is it logical?

its logical but what does your ex has to do with your carrer..

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broke up with boyfriend; now back together. Do we continue counting or start over?

Saturday, December 12th, 2009

I broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, we are back together 2 days later. Would you keep counting the days that weve been together or start new?

only 2 days? lol

start from where you left off…emotional ties were still there..

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I broke up with this guy, and now I want to get back together?

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

I broke up with him, but now I really want to go out with him again, but I dont know if he would want to and i really like him. What should I do?

honestly, please think it over.
Can you see yourself for the rest of your life with him?
Is all you can think about is that he’s the only guy that makes you feel good, only person you can see being with, kissing, hugging, cuddling.
Just make sure you go in with a clear perspective of what you really want, with no regret.

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Fianceè and I just broke it off, how to take next step? Just have a feeling being lost without a network.?

Tuesday, December 8th, 2009

I’m just trying to start piecing my own life together again after we broke it off yesterday. It was a mutual breakup but it started by myself because of trust issues on both sides. Just looking for advice on how to network in a new community and lifestyle (Being single) so I can have friends to do activities with.

Any advice is helpful. Thanks

Best thing to do is to just get out there and do it. If you have other friends, or co-workers, try and see what they are getting into and tag along. Its really rough when you end a relationship. And it takes some time to get over. One rule though, don’t get into anything romantic/emotional with someone too quickly. We tend to maake mistakes in our ‘rebound’ period. Just try and go out and have a good time. Whether that is at the gym, club, movies, etc. If you like to dance, hop on the internet and see what the night life is about and good places to go.

If you are in your own place, throw a little get together and invite friends/co-workers and mingle a little bit.

Thats my 2 cents

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Boyfriend broke up with a friend of mine after they dating for 2 years true love. now hes dating so soon agn.?

Tuesday, December 8th, 2009

They loved each other, but went through hell like most couples do. They just recently broke up and now the guy is off dating another chick so soon. (Within a couple of weeks I think)
Why?
Whats his deal?

Anything Psychological about this?
Thanks for the information guys. I feel the same way as everyone here as replied.

They weren’t in love, at least he wasn’t and your friend fooled herself to believe she was in love, you kids don’t know what love is that’s why half of all marriages end in divorce

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I broke up with my girlfriend, but now I regret it. How can I get her back?

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

I told her that she deserved better than me but she loved me more than anything. But i broke up with her. And now after thinking about it, She was the only person in the world that loved me for who I was. I feel horrible now and I will do anything to get her back.

GO TO HER DOORSTEP NOWWWWWWW!!!!!!!

tell her that she is the one and you love her

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