Scorpio guys: How do you handle breakups when it’s a mutual agreement between both?
Sunday, January 10th, 2010I know that when people hurt them, they get even, but what if it was mutual? How do you handle it? How do you cope with it? Do you get obsessed with the issue (considering the fact that we’re obssesive) ? Scorpios have a hard time letting go, but as a guy’s point of view, do you cling to it or how do you get over it?
Our relationship was for about 6 months , broke off but we still care for each other. (if that helps)
Well, being a water sign as well (I’m a girl, though), I would imagine that the Scorpio guy would feel a little heartbroken at the end of any relationship…simply because the reason we (as a water sign) went out with that person is because plain and simply..we liked them enough to want a future with them! I doubt other scorpios just go out with girls or guys to "have some fun" or "see what it’s like," I mean, sure there’s an element of that in the decision to go out with them, but the main reason is because we want to be with this person. So, well, judging from just this, I would imagine that scorpios WOULD, yes, have a hard time letting go, I’ve heard that they usually want to try everything possible to glue back together the broken pieces and try to make the breakup go away…..and, that is, if they respected you enough as a person, if they’re the ones who decided the love died, then, well, I’d imagine they’d be a little heartless about it–and, no, not be clingy oR obsessive about it.
In the case that you loved this person and really were convinced they could have a future with you…I think the scorpio would be heartborken and, yes, would obsess about it endlessly and even after it was over would probably go over it in theri heads and try to see where they went wrong and maybe even try to place the blame on somebody….depends on the type of Scorpio…..
Now, I think, if this other person Cheated on them, and Tha’ts why the relationship is over, thennn the Scorpio would probably be ALL over the place trying to muster up ways to get sweet revenge, because of course, in their eyes, that person clearly deserves it!
I think if it was "mutual hurt," like you put it, the Scorpio would not really consider getting even; They would just accept the facts and go….
It’s only when they feel they’ve been treated unfairly that they would feel the need for revenge……
Cancers are revengeful, too…….or at least I am…….but usually I just suddenly see where the other person is coming from, and I put myself int heir shoes and, even though I still feel utterly disguested for what they did, I usually try to stick around and try to figure out what in hell made them act that way. Then! I find out that it wasn’t even about me………that person wasn’t even thinking about hurting me…it was just their own inferiority complexes and other times, just plainly not being aware of how they were hurting me. So, after that, I see revenge as a waste of time..and I figure, well revenge just makes us both end up feeling worse….so yeah, what’s the point. To me, revenge is all about succeeding above the limitations a person put on you right in front of their face. Sweeeet. I think the best revenge is success………and it’s the one that most inarguably would get the message across to the other person, in my opinion. And that’s whether they realize they hurt you or not.
So, to sum it all up, I’d say scorpios would obsess over most break-ups for the simple reason that all we water signs go out with somebody with the hopes that this will be the real thing..we don’t treat it lightly! And, now, about the subject of whether they would be revengeful about it or not……..that would only happen if they felt they had been slighted….if they felt that someone had treated them unjustly and had felt that they could get away with it, too. HELL NAW the scorpio will show them who’s boss. I don’t think that a scorpio would at least act out revenge unless the person clearly took advantage of them somehow. If the person went out with them, and they just weren’t feeling it, the scorpio would prob be a little hurt…………and they might even stalk the person when they’re with their other, new, boyfriend…but it’s only when they feel they have been clearly taken advantage of that they will act on feelings of revenge. In this case they would probably stalk for a bit and think about it a lot and then eventually be able to let go of this person……
Depends on how much they liked the person, really!
Good luck with your answers….A cancer snake with a leo moon and pluto in 1st house with scorpio ascendant (lol)
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