Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years off and on, we met shortly after his fiance committed suicide. We took it slow but then got really close after about 6 months, did the whole holiday’s with the family and then he moved about an hour away, but because of work is close to me 1-2 a week. Then he ended it saying he needed to work on his issues, we got back together after a month, but broke up again because he didn’t feel that fire, which of course was due to my trust issues. Well he says now, after missing me and after seeing a counselor that his breaking up was a cry for help, needing reassurance and such. but things feel just the same, distant. Here’s the kicker, I never had real love, and when we are together I’ve never been happier or have been with anyone who treats me better. I’m very afraid of getting hurt again and wonder if I shouldn’t just move on and forget about ever having love.
btw, there is no drama, we get along very well, we never fight, I clam up and he walks away, but then we miss each other, start talking and can’t wait to see each other again.

You’re going to live a miserable life if you live it in fear of being hurt. That’s all I can say to you. The rest is up to you.

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Have you ever dated someone for a REALLY long time.. then they broke up with you– and you got back together? If so.. did you have a trust issue then? Like a fear that they would leave you again?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now. (The past three months he’s been talking about marriage and babies almost every day) STILL to this day, I think about him breaking up with me. (he broke up with me about 8 months ago, and we got back together) During that time, he wouldn’t talk to me.. it was very painful. I know in my heart I will marry this man… I know he loves me, and I love him.. but I can’t get over this fear and this trust issue. Anyone every gone through something similar? He wants to get engaged ASAP.. and I’m still kindof beat up from the past break up months and months ago! What to do?
By the way- I’m a girl!
My username is "Mike" that’s my brother!

Dang! I am in the same boat but a little different see we were together for four years and are still trying to work things out! But that trust issue is there and though he talks about getting married and having kids with me it doesn’t change what happened in the past. The first four months that we broke up we were still dating but when we did get back together it got worse and now we are friends but dating again and seeing if we can be together. See the love is there and all but no trust and that is a big thing. Soo….. I can tell that you are still beating yourself up about it and you have to think about it, can you trust him because if you keep thinking about him breaking it up then you will never be happy and this may take time it is not an easy step I, myself am still learning about this and I am serious now that if it doesn’t work out now then why will it work out if we marry, or if it did not work in those four years why would it work out in another four? You just have to think about what also makes YOU happy and that, that trust issue you have can turn into something very ugly if you ignore it. Trust me, I know.

Good Luck!

XOXO

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It depends on the severity of the breakup and how connected you were to the person. The stages of breaking up are the five stages of denial. First you become sad and frustrated. You feel hurt and you feel like you will never get out of your sadness. Then you get angry. It could be that you are angry with yourself, with your ex or just everyone or anyone else around you. Third, you start trying to bargain with yourself or the other person. You think "well maybe we can just be friends" or maybe he’ll come back" or whatever. Fourth you get into a mood of indifference where you don’t know what to do next and your kinda like "whatever I don’t care". Then finally after all this you except your situation and with a positive attitude you move on. How long this process takes is different for every person and situation. You might find yourself repeating some of the steps over again as well. But, eventually it does end and life moves on.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months… We have broken up about 3 or 4 times… but we always find ourselves getting back together everytime… I think the reason why is because I love him to much to let him go…. Is it really love? He asks me back out 2 times and I did the same… I told him I love him and he means the world to me… and he knows it… we are always happy together and when we have the time we go on our dates, and we always talk every night on the phone… Can someone help me find out whats going on?

He is playing around with this relationship. Maybe he just wants sex or money or emotional support that you provide for him. 1 thing is for sure he is getting something from you and he needs that until he is completely satisfied in another relationship and then he will break-up for real. You don’t need that. Why do you keep going through pain all the time? Let him go and find yourself a man that will appreciate what he has.

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