Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

well me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 weeks and i have a feeling she wants to break up. we hung out alot and had a great time and yesterday i was going to hang out with her but she was with our friends and said she couldnt and same as today and tommorrow im good friends with them too… it takes her alot longer to txt back. and idk it just seems like she will.

could anyone give me some other signs of a breakup.. your past expeiences plz

I agree with the first answer.

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A couple months ago my bf and I had the "marriage talk." We’re different religions and he was worried there would be too many differences (even though we’ve been together 2 yrs and it’s never once been an issue). We ended up breaking up for no real reason 2 months ago after a completely unrelated fight.

He is out of town on business for the summer and calls me every day. He has been thinking about marriage again and wants to marry me but wants me to stop going to my church. I told him that’s asking too much of me. (Esp since he was fine w/ it when we started dating.)

I love him and want to be with him, but this is the second time in 2 years of dating that we have broken up. I know a lot of people who have taken a break or two before getting married, but is that a bad sign? (I ended things the first time, 2 years ago, for purely immature reasons, he ended things this time)
His mom broke up with her fiance last summer the day before their wedding. They got married a couple days later, with just a couple witnesses, and were divorced 6 months later. I don’t want that to be us.
We’re the same religion, that’s what’s weird. He has suddenly become very bitter about it.

We brokeup a couple of months before the wedding and then got back together and the marriage has been rocky the whole time.
Wish we had not gotten married

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if a girl that you broke up with a few months ago is driving you crazy acting like she still has feelings for you, and possibly wants to get back together, how do you go about finding out for sure without asking her outright and sounding desperate/obsessive/clingy/whatever?

(1) think about why you broke up with the girl.

(2) weigh your options whether or not the original reason is enough for you to avoid the person.

(3) acting crazy in love can’t be good – if you were acting up, would she give you the time of day, or is this kind of behavior deserving of a relationship or of your time even?

(4) if you are interested in finding out whether the person really likes you or something, the operative phrase is that "you are (still) interested" and if you are, then the first 3 items above are nullified.

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Like separating from a long-term relationship, but then agreeing to get back together a couple of years down the line… And these people are in their 20s…
Even if these two love each other and been through traumatic life experiences, what are the odds they’ll meet someone new and forget about the "pact"? Basically move on… The underlying problem is trust, and that they possibly met each other too young.

Lets see you sound like me… Imo id say no. Im sure within years time the 2 of you will grow apart and move on. But if nothing works now in the relationship why would it work later? Just a thought..

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my bf broke up with me because we have a pattern of breaking up and getting back together. He told me he thinking logically and not by his emotions. He said i don’t feel secure with you and I’m afraid. One day you will get pissed off and leave me. He said I’m not ever being left again (his ex girl left him, and hurt him badly) He said he is afraid of me and can’t handle all of this. I just cried and I tried to stay with him. He said no. What should i do? ??

Just leave him alone for a few days if you want him back. In my opinion I wouldn’t want him back. If you two keep breaking up and getting back together then I don’t really think you’re the greatest couple. Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be between you two. But if you really want him back just leave him alone for a few days. Then he might realize what he’s done and come back to you.

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This girl i like keeps breaking up and getting back together with her boyfriend?
This girl that I met around this time last year i liked her a lot and we were friends for a while…i wanted to ask her out until one day i checked her facebook to find to my surprise that her relationship status said "in a relationship" this was n December. She broke up with him in february and got back with him in march. She broke up with him again at the end of the month…and then got back with him again. So I was just wondering…what am i supposed to do? By the way she is 16 almost 17 if that helps…and Im 18. Shes a senior in high school and im a college freshmen

Man…you’re in college! Don’t even bother with her. She’d probably be constantly breaking up with you too if you tried to maintain a relationship. I’m not sure of all the aspects of your situation but it sounds like this girl can’t make up her mind. You gotta’ leave her be.

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Isn’t there a name or a term for this?
When a couple are constantly breaking up and getting back together.
Does any one know of any good websites, forums, or blogs I can read up about this problem I know that most couples that do this have some type of character flaw
Thank you all in advance for your suggestions

maybe this isn’t so common of a problem I’m still having trouble finding information on this. my wife and I always end up breaking up every 2 years, then after about 8 months of seperation we manage to resovle our problems and get back together..just trying to find as much information I can thank you all again for your suggestions

The term is called a "doomed relationship." This is never…ever…a good sign that the relationship will last.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years off and on, we met shortly after his fiance committed suicide. We took it slow but then got really close after about 6 months, did the whole holiday’s with the family and then he moved about an hour away, but because of work is close to me 1-2 a week. Then he ended it saying he needed to work on his issues, we got back together after a month, but broke up again because he didn’t feel that fire, which of course was due to my trust issues. Well he says now, after missing me and after seeing a counselor that his breaking up was a cry for help, needing reassurance and such. but things feel just the same, distant. Here’s the kicker, I never had real love, and when we are together I’ve never been happier or have been with anyone who treats me better. I’m very afraid of getting hurt again and wonder if I shouldn’t just move on and forget about ever having love.
btw, there is no drama, we get along very well, we never fight, I clam up and he walks away, but then we miss each other, start talking and can’t wait to see each other again.

You’re going to live a miserable life if you live it in fear of being hurt. That’s all I can say to you. The rest is up to you.

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Have you ever dated someone for a REALLY long time.. then they broke up with you– and you got back together? If so.. did you have a trust issue then? Like a fear that they would leave you again?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now. (The past three months he’s been talking about marriage and babies almost every day) STILL to this day, I think about him breaking up with me. (he broke up with me about 8 months ago, and we got back together) During that time, he wouldn’t talk to me.. it was very painful. I know in my heart I will marry this man… I know he loves me, and I love him.. but I can’t get over this fear and this trust issue. Anyone every gone through something similar? He wants to get engaged ASAP.. and I’m still kindof beat up from the past break up months and months ago! What to do?
By the way- I’m a girl!
My username is "Mike" that’s my brother!

Dang! I am in the same boat but a little different see we were together for four years and are still trying to work things out! But that trust issue is there and though he talks about getting married and having kids with me it doesn’t change what happened in the past. The first four months that we broke up we were still dating but when we did get back together it got worse and now we are friends but dating again and seeing if we can be together. See the love is there and all but no trust and that is a big thing. Soo….. I can tell that you are still beating yourself up about it and you have to think about it, can you trust him because if you keep thinking about him breaking it up then you will never be happy and this may take time it is not an easy step I, myself am still learning about this and I am serious now that if it doesn’t work out now then why will it work out if we marry, or if it did not work in those four years why would it work out in another four? You just have to think about what also makes YOU happy and that, that trust issue you have can turn into something very ugly if you ignore it. Trust me, I know.

Good Luck!

XOXO

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It depends on the severity of the breakup and how connected you were to the person. The stages of breaking up are the five stages of denial. First you become sad and frustrated. You feel hurt and you feel like you will never get out of your sadness. Then you get angry. It could be that you are angry with yourself, with your ex or just everyone or anyone else around you. Third, you start trying to bargain with yourself or the other person. You think "well maybe we can just be friends" or maybe he’ll come back" or whatever. Fourth you get into a mood of indifference where you don’t know what to do next and your kinda like "whatever I don’t care". Then finally after all this you except your situation and with a positive attitude you move on. How long this process takes is different for every person and situation. You might find yourself repeating some of the steps over again as well. But, eventually it does end and life moves on.

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