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He tried to say he may want to reduce the frequency. How should I understand it. He told me to sleep on it and let him know if I am open to him.
He had been seeing me 3x a week gave me xmas present on new year’s and spent all of new year’s day with me with no conflict – still had good sex. So he wasn’t even acting uninterested. I was surprised. On the call he said, we could go for a run together etc. When I asked if he was calling to say we should be friends. He said no (b/c he has a sexual attraction) and implied that is even better. Wow. I thought he liked me more than I did. He was making all the plans/efforts and even was planning a vacation with me which was his idea. This happened the day before our talk. How could he switch so fast?
The truth is he wasn’t perfect for me but since he made me feel good with all his compliments I went along with it. The sex was good though I have to admit. He was a giver in that regard. Maybe that’s all he is good for huh? He contacted me on Saturday, day after call, to tell me that he would have enjoyed getting to know other sides of me and also he would def miss the sex?!
I plan to start seeing other people ASAP. I would consider maybe sex one more time or as a option b/c I don’t have strong feelings for him and at least he was a giver when we had sex. Bad idea?

it means he wants to let you down slowly and/or he wants to keep his options open and still have you around.. move on.. don’t waste your time

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I really like my bf, but i keep thinking of my ex

is it wrong to still be with him when i love my ex? or should i give it a bit of time

i’m so confused and don’t know what to do

The best thing is to sit down and talk to your new bf about your feelings, tell him that while you like him, you still love your ex. Explain how confused you are and ask him for some time apart to get your head and heart straight, if he is a decent person he will respect your honesty and your feelings even though this may hurt him to hear it. It is not fair to him or to yourself to be in a relationship if you are still in love with someone else. When you have figured out what you want to do ( try again with your ex or put your ex behind you because it can’t work or whatever happens) and you are thinking clearly call and tell him what you have decided to do. I wish you the best of luck.

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my bf broke up with me because we have a pattern of breaking up and getting back together. He told me he thinking logically and not by his emotions. He said i don’t feel secure with you and I’m afraid. One day you will get pissed off and leave me. He said I’m not ever being left again (his ex girl left him, and hurt him badly) He said he is afraid of me and can’t handle all of this. I just cried and I tried to stay with him. He said no. What should i do? ??

Just leave him alone for a few days if you want him back. In my opinion I wouldn’t want him back. If you two keep breaking up and getting back together then I don’t really think you’re the greatest couple. Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be between you two. But if you really want him back just leave him alone for a few days. Then he might realize what he’s done and come back to you.

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At 33 I dont feel like having a bf again. I prefer to concentrate on looking for a better job. I like to be independent in financial matters before going into a new relationship. Is it logical?

its logical but what does your ex has to do with your carrer..

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Ok i was dating this guy and we had this on and off relationship and after a while i broke up with him for good and moved on kind of. But now i found out last night that he is still in love with me and he won’t date any other girls because all he can think about is me and the memories we had. The problem is i have someone else and i don’t want to lose the guy i’m with now because my ex still loves me.

It’s NOT your problem…it’s your Exs.. He will get over it in time. Do not encourage him to move on..Don’t talk to him..on the phone or tex.just let him move on by himself or help from other friends NOT YOU> Do not give him any reason to think he still has a chance.
Have fun with the new guy and live your own life.

If he found a new girlfriend and moved on I am sure he wouldn’t be thinking of you.

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My friend received a dog as a gift,they broke up and now the bf is asking her to chip in the payments for the dog. He told her that if she doesn’t pay the dog shop will take the dog back? Is this possible?
my guess is that whoever bought the dog(the boyfriend) in this case will owe the money and if he doesn’t pay the amount/debt/account will become delinquent and will go to collections? What are the legal ramifications of this?

and this is the reason why you shouldnt give pets as gifts……

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