Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I just broke up with a guy I was dating for 6 months, even though we both knew that we weren’t right for each other, and that the relationship should have ended sooner. What kept us there was a strong physical attraction, but we weren’t really that compatible otherwise. Ultimately, I ended it. I tried to do it in person, but he wasn’t receptive to it, so I did it by email. That ended in a blood bath. Apologies were made, but it left me wounded, and I don’t think it was good for either of us. Any suggestions on how to right this wrong, and leave the relationship on a good note?

Breaking up with someone is never easy, even under the very BEST circumstances. It sounds to me like you’ve already done the hard parts (admitting that a purely a physical attraction DOES NOT make a relationship and ultimately ending it).

Now you have to fully come to terms with what has happened. You said in your post that you’ve been wounded by this experience……why do you feel it is so important to leave things on a "good note". Someone who REALLY cares about you- even if it didn’t work out- would NEVER purposefully or knowingly wound you. It sounds to me like you would like to preserve a friendship of sorts with this person…….I don’t think it’s possible, viable, or more importantly HEALTHY! There is no need to hang on to this………let go and you will be all the better for doing so. Accept the fact that it is truly done, over, finished, the fat lady sang and caught her flight out of town. Now relax and take a big deep breath.

Get back to the gym, read a good book, have a day at the spa, spin your favorite tunes, buy a new outfit, do whatever makes you feel good. Focus on all the positive things you have in your life and CHOOSE to put yourself in positive situations and around positive people. I should add that his circle of friends or stomping grounds is NOT included in any of those options.

A few parting words of caution, don’t be quick to jump into another relationship. Explore what it is that you truly want for yourself and don’t settle for anything less. Dream BIG!!! And when you do start looking for that special "someone" again, make sure that they love you for ALL the wonderful things you have to offer. Good luck and stay well.

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A couple months ago my bf and I had the "marriage talk." We’re different religions and he was worried there would be too many differences (even though we’ve been together 2 yrs and it’s never once been an issue). We ended up breaking up for no real reason 2 months ago after a completely unrelated fight.

He is out of town on business for the summer and calls me every day. He has been thinking about marriage again and wants to marry me but wants me to stop going to my church. I told him that’s asking too much of me. (Esp since he was fine w/ it when we started dating.)

I love him and want to be with him, but this is the second time in 2 years of dating that we have broken up. I know a lot of people who have taken a break or two before getting married, but is that a bad sign? (I ended things the first time, 2 years ago, for purely immature reasons, he ended things this time)
His mom broke up with her fiance last summer the day before their wedding. They got married a couple days later, with just a couple witnesses, and were divorced 6 months later. I don’t want that to be us.
We’re the same religion, that’s what’s weird. He has suddenly become very bitter about it.

We brokeup a couple of months before the wedding and then got back together and the marriage has been rocky the whole time.
Wish we had not gotten married

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It seems the Christians I meet have met Christ when there has been hardship like recovering from alcohol, drugs divorce and I was wondering exactly why, why if you didnt need Christ than all of a sudden you clung to him, and if it helped you or made life worse was the decision to follow Jesus yours or when you were hurting was he introduced upon you by someone else as the way to ease the pain in your heart.

The opposite happened to me i lost my faith at a time of hardship. i guess life tends to throw us in certain directions. I like to think there is some sort of reasoning behind everything. but personally religion does feel like it acts as a band aid. i try to put my faith in friends and family they dont let u down.

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Has anyone ever gotten back together with an ex after a bad breakup or after a long time?

Yes..Remarried my first husband after 15 years of being apart.

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