Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

My girlfriend of two years recently broke up with me about a week ago. I was not being the best boyfriend and she was unhappy. She is now going out with my friend, who is a very nice guy. She wants to remain friends with me and I would like to do the same. We both go to school together and have a few classes together. I work with my friend and we often have similar shifts. I am trying to remain friends with her and I am ok hanging out with either one of them. My problem occurs when I hang out with both of them at the same time. They try not to act like boyfriend and girlfriend so they dont upset me but I can see the sparks between them and it reminds me of everything we had together. I commute 30 minutes to school and most of my high school friends have moved away so outside of them I dont really have any other close friends. Any advice on how to move on with seeing both of them at one time or another every day would be greatly appreciated.

Stay away from both of them. You need to develop some new relationships. Hanging around with either or both of them will just make you depressed and make it harder for you to move on.

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first off i been getting to know this guy that i really like but i feel i am into him more then he is me.i have been more hurt in relationships then i can count because i hand over my heart to fast and i always end up hurt.
i feel avoided now by him because he is barely speaking to me and when he does he always has an excuse as to why he has to go.i want to get to know him and maybe more but i dont think the feeling is mutual by his actions.i am just afraid that i will get burned again.any advice please? thank you

I know how you feel cuz i told this guy i like him and gave him my number and this is now 5 weeks and he hasent called me and i feel real bad and sad cuz we go to skool together and he doesnt speak to me much anymore…so i know how you feel.

What i usually tell MYSELF is to follow my heart and if i think its for me then go for it but if not let God do the rest.

I gte hurt too much anddont wanna go through that anymore.

Good luck to you and take care!

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Married 2.5 years, together 9 (dating+marriage)
I was asked to leave the house a week ago

I went through a depressed/ill period, where I gave up and stopped trying to do anything

My husband’s "friends" and family called me a "parasite".

Now he has started believing them and is SOOOO bitter against me.

I don’t want what he has, if I never got a thing out of him again, other than love, I would be happy.

But,…he will barely even talk to me, maybe a minute, litterly.

I read online above all not to argue, and to just kindly agree with anything he says.

Does that work??? If so, or not, What (else) does?

I don’t want to lose my Best friend, marriage, home, pets, etc…

Help!

My question to you is…why would you want to be with someone who takes his friends and family over his wife? Think about it you two have been married 2 1/2 years and he is listening to them. Is something wrong with this picture? Hon, worry about yourself and not what some book or website has to say.

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The relationship was over months ago, even though the breakup occurred recently. My friend just emotionally "checked out" and now is back on the market. But before she goes any further, I would like to know what steps she may need to take before she meets someone new. She’s not looking for a relationship— she easily attracts guys— but I think she needs to put some things into perspective before she goes any further. What advice might you give her?

ya

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Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me a week and a half ago after weve been together for four months. She since her exams started she hasnt felt we connected anymore like we used to even a few weeks before the exams. She said that she was maybe even using the exams as an excuse not to to do somefin wif me she was that confused. She said it was the hardest thing she ever done in her life and has been crying for ages about it and was almost crying on the day, her eyes filled up. I told her I cared a lot about her and she said she cared about me and wants to be friends but she doesnt no how that would work since we never were friends. I am her first bf and believe that we drifted apart because we didnt spend enough time alone as a couple.And think she made a rushed decision because of exams and stress, Im disappointed she didnt try to make it work as well. Anyway i respected her decision and decided maybe she needs space so I havent contacted her since. I didnt want to wait around for her and have been trying to get on with life. my friends girlfriend is actually one of her friends but is annoied at her and shocked for breaking up with me and nt trying to make it work so shes not going out of her way to talk to her. The problem I have is today I found out that my ex is actually now going out with another guy. I was surprised it hurt me as much as it did, and have been so confused and shocked now at hearing this. my friend seen her bebo and someguy is now her other half and have been sending flirty comments. my friends girlfriend then asked her and my ex says she is going out with someone. Now I really am confused and don’t get how she could go out with someon1 so soon. Im getting a hole pile of thoughts going through my head. Im now getting the impressions she cheated on me for him and that she never did care about me?:s. she was very upset about breaking up with me and I didnt think she would b able to date again for a while. she is also going to france in half a month for a month. she is still in the middle of the exams which end next week that she needs 3As for. I just dont get it and am so confused. She def didnt seem to be the sort of girl that would cheat r do something like that so quickly saying I am her first boyfriend and she was extremely upset and she said that she cared about me. my mums even surprised :s im just so confused right now. she hasnt contacted me i avent contacted her I signed in msn once nd she went straight off. she also put pics of us up together on bebo the day after the breakup from the night b4 and kept her status the same:S.im so confused.would she be trying to make me jealous r anything?i get the impression now she never cared about me, cheated on me, lied to me about the break up and everything else and she didnt seem to be that sort of person to do that :S.ive been trying to move on and was prepared for this but not so soon and it did hurt more than I thought.is this normal for girls to do:S
ive also been hearing that she has been doing terrible in her A levels and getting realy upset, which also hurts me cause I still care about her. my friends girlfriend that is friends with her basically says my ex is turning into a waster. I dont get it she just seems to have completely turned her life upside down.

she was probably really confused and possibly felt that you didn’t care enough about her…maybe. she probably had other stuff going on in her life, did you ever ask her what was wrong? you need to send her an email/txt/voicemail telling her she is a good person and you miss her and you hope she’s doing alright. because this way she would know you still care about her, she’s feels happier, she might realize she shouldnt have broke up with you and also she would think about you(thou she probably does). good luck!

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My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and 4 months, he broke up with me about 1 week ago now, out of no where! He broke up with me over a text message and wouldnt event talk to me. His mom was at my house crying with me, nobody knew what was going on. come to find out, he has a new gf. so he left me for her. i must add. she is teeribly uggly! honestly and im not saying it just because im pissed. everyone is trippen on why he downgraded. he tells me she has a better personality then me, thats kinda harsh. he told me he didnt love me any more. he said as a friend kinda but even then still not. How do u stop caring for a person in a day!? that doesnt make sence. he has to be lieing, well he is cuz i finally got it out of him that he does care, but he made it pretty clear that he wants nothing to do with me. It kills me to see them drive by in his truck (thats the hottest truck in town if i might add) we picked it out together, and she is sitting in my seat, she goes to his house and sits in my seat and sleeps in my side of the bed! it makes me so sick to my stomach. at night i dream of it and i wake up, and its like he broke up with me all over again. I try to go out and have fun, but i still cant figure it all out. I need help to figure out if he would want me back, is this just a phase? i need help on how to make him want me back. i know this might sound mean, but i dont really want to be with him after how much he hurt me, but i dont want him with her, since she is the one he left me for. He wanted me too be unhappy so i want him to be also. i just need tips on how to make him want me back. and keep in mind he restricted me so i cant call him with my phone(but i can use another) and i work with him!! o and he is already taking her to OUR friends houses after a week! So im left out all alone. O AND KEEP IN MIND, I AM IN LOVE WITH HIS ENTIRE FAMILY!! WE WERE TOGETHER 247 ALL DAY EVERYDAY! KEEP THAT IN MIND ALSO! how do u go from that to nothing with no hurt (well obviously cuz he has someone to focus on, but like whyyy) PLEASE HELP! THANK YOU!

he’s an ass, obviously if he moved on that fast he’s been unhappy for a while now… don’t humiliate yourself or downgrade yourself for someone who ain’t worth it. Try to move on, of course is painful but is just a phase stop thinking about his happiness and start concentrating on yours. Best of luck to you.

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i dated my ex for almost 2 years, we were ok but i think being too attached with each other makes us argue few times. He’s got some anger outbursts but i def love him. I know he loves me too. The last break-up we had was 3 months ago and we talked about it weeks ago, he cried to me. I am still in love with him. I emailed him my feelings too but it seemed he’s being aloof and email me some few words which i am not really contented at. What should i do? i want him back, any tips?

Tell him you want him back. You two are at a point now that you should not feel like you should have to hold anything back from each other. I think that maybe he did not know how to properly express his feelings through his email so he just wrote a few words. You two need to be face to face and just vent on how the both of you feel about your past relationship and current friendship.

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Here is the story:
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A woman, 23, successful, very good job, decent looking, sweet, smart, well rounded, relatively well-off has never dated before (her problems: a little aggressive, shy, distant).
One day she meets a great guy. There is a spark, they go out for three months.

Her shyness and distance alienated the guy, he was patient for the three months but could not take it anymore. He breaks up.
She regrets her attitude and she tries to get back, but he wants out.

A month has passed by and she still likes him a lot. She wants to give it another chance. She knows that she has so much to offer, and that he would have liked her so much had he shown him the real her, and been herself around him. She just wishes there was a way for him to realize it was just her shyness that lead to her distance, and that in reality, she’s a very different kind hearted person.

Here is the question:
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What should she do? If you were that guy, what would make you get back to her? How about just restoring friendship? If so, how to get back this friendship?

is she hot? has she put on a few pounds? (what do you mean by "well rounded"), is she ethnic? if she’s you then she should move on. if she’s some mythical girl then i agree with the BJ suggestions

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any tips or advice for what to do in this situation?

don’t date them you won’t have a chance it is a waste of money

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She broke up with me and i really want her back, i cant move on and i was planning to marry her, we have being dating for 1 year and 6 months, she always sends me messages that says she loves me alot but now she sent a message that said its over.
i dont know what happened and she wont tell me, her phone is now off, and she doesnt send back any letters.
PLEASE HELP

You just need to talk to her and ask her what is going on. Why did she initiated the break up without any explanation. You deserve at least that… an answer

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