Comments on: Meet up with my Ex for the first time since the breakup? http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/stop-hurting-surviving-your-break-up/meet-up-with-my-ex-for-the-first-time-since-the-breakup YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS, YOU WILL BE OKAY, AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:13:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: sunshine_<3 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/stop-hurting-surviving-your-break-up/meet-up-with-my-ex-for-the-first-time-since-the-breakup/comment-page-1#comment-3936 sunshine_<3 Sun, 29 Nov 2009 01:59:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/stop-hurting-surviving-your-break-up/meet-up-with-my-ex-for-the-first-time-since-the-breakup#comment-3936 This is talking from experience... I was in a 5 year relationship and lived with a guy I though I was going to marry, have children with, the whole thing. Turns out he didn't feel the same way, and we broke up 5 months ago. We tried to get back together this past summer, but it didn't work because there were issues that we never touched back on. We ended things on bad terms again and we have not spoken in over a month. My advice is, you broke up for a reason correct? Remember that reason, and think about if it can be fixed. Talk about it and work on it, but in the meantime also realize that she's in another relationship as well. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way, and that could be an even bigger hit to you. I would back off and give her her space, and let her new relationship blossom. Like that old cliche, 'if you love someone set them free'. It sucks but it's true. Have fun dating again, you learn what to look for in a woman and what you want from a relationship. And BE PICKY. Good luck, and take care<br><b>References : </b><br>Experience This is talking from experience…

I was in a 5 year relationship and lived with a guy I though I was going to marry, have children with, the whole thing.

Turns out he didn’t feel the same way, and we broke up 5 months ago.
We tried to get back together this past summer, but it didn’t work because there were issues that we never touched back on.
We ended things on bad terms again and we have not spoken in over a month.

My advice is, you broke up for a reason correct? Remember that reason, and think about if it can be fixed. Talk about it and work on it, but in the meantime also realize that she’s in another relationship as well. Maybe she doesn’t feel the same way, and that could be an even bigger hit to you.

I would back off and give her her space, and let her new relationship blossom. Like that old cliche, ‘if you love someone set them free’. It sucks but it’s true.

Have fun dating again, you learn what to look for in a woman and what you want from a relationship. And BE PICKY.

Good luck, and take care
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Experience

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