Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

I’ve been going on a relationship with a woman for about 3 weeks. She has now left the country. She’s in her early 30s and I am mid 20s. In the beginning I was thinking that its just a "for fun" relationship because she’s leaving the country in few weeks anyway. But after a week or so, I got so in love with her and few days before she left the country, she broke up with me (because small differences in our thought process – and that she said, our relationship only for temporary anyway, so why should we pursue it). She told me not to contact her again, I said sorry so many times that I said I just want to be friends with her. But she declined, she said that she doesn’t want to be friends with someone that once close to her.

I emailed her after she left, just saying formalities like how r u and all.. she replied but when I started chatting with her nicely in instant messenger, after 10 minutes or so (she talk nicely in the first 10 minutes, saying all stuff unrelated to our relationship), she said.. didn’t we agree not to talk/contact with each other anymore?

I tried to convince her that I just want to be friends with her(honest!, its not like I’m going to see her in person again), but she refused, she said that she doesn’t think of me as an enemy but she just want to forget about me. She said, she’s going to block me from her instant messenger, and by that, I probably can’t contact her again except by email (which she can block too, if she wants).

I am crushed.. because I can’t move out from this city like her, everything just reminded me of her. I think of her very often especially during the nights and mornings, or when I pass by the restaurant/places we used to be together. I can’t not pass these places because these places near where I am currently living.

So my question is, should I emailed her next week/month or so if I want her to just be my friend. Just a friend.. its not like I can see her in person anyway.

Secondly, how do I forget about her? Right now, everything just reminds me of her. I also had the best sex ever with her.

Sorry for the long detail.. I’m just so desperate,confused, sad and heartbroken. Any own experiences is highly appreciated. It also seems that I have good memory which makes it hard for me to forget too… =(

please help me

to be honest, it’s surprising to me how attached you’ve grown to this woman in a very short 3 weeks. she seems to have treated you very rudely by wanting to forget about you. there are so many other women in the world, and right now you’re probably thinking that all you want is her, but you can have that kind of relationship and much more with someone else. i know right now it must seem impossible, but there really is other women out there that you can have better relationships with.

be with someone who will love you as much as you love them. forget about this girl and try to start dating again.

good luck

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