My bf of 3 months told me he has serious doubts about us with no warning signs. Is that a breakup?
He tried to say he may want to reduce the frequency. How should I understand it. He told me to sleep on it and let him know if I am open to him.
He had been seeing me 3x a week gave me xmas present on new year’s and spent all of new year’s day with me with no conflict – still had good sex. So he wasn’t even acting uninterested. I was surprised. On the call he said, we could go for a run together etc. When I asked if he was calling to say we should be friends. He said no (b/c he has a sexual attraction) and implied that is even better. Wow. I thought he liked me more than I did. He was making all the plans/efforts and even was planning a vacation with me which was his idea. This happened the day before our talk. How could he switch so fast?
The truth is he wasn’t perfect for me but since he made me feel good with all his compliments I went along with it. The sex was good though I have to admit. He was a giver in that regard. Maybe that’s all he is good for huh? He contacted me on Saturday, day after call, to tell me that he would have enjoyed getting to know other sides of me and also he would def miss the sex?!
I plan to start seeing other people ASAP. I would consider maybe sex one more time or as a option b/c I don’t have strong feelings for him and at least he was a giver when we had sex. Bad idea?
it means he wants to let you down slowly and/or he wants to keep his options open and still have you around.. move on.. don’t waste your time
hes fallen out of love with you..time to move on…
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talk to him
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Yes it is, i know because i’ve done that before
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Walk away. Now’s your chance. He isn’t serious about you and if you don’t do the walking, chances are excellent that he will. Be the first to go. You’ll be happy you did, later.
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im here for ya if u need meeee
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Dump him 1st and move on. Nothing like being unwanted. Happened to me.
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it means he wants to let you down slowly and/or he wants to keep his options open and still have you around.. move on.. don’t waste your time
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If he has doubts after 3 months, he’s either found somebody else or realized that he’s not that into you. It’s not a breakup, but it might as well be. Do you really want to be with a guy who doesn’t think he’s going to stay with you long term?
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it sounds like he wants to break up. Think about how you feel about him and talk to him about it. If he still thinks you guys have no future, then move on.
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lol um wel idk but maybe u should kinda move on bc if he said that then to me that sounds like ya’ll arent goin to last a long time
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Guys suck sometimes.. If he’s hinting he doesn’t feel the same then it’s never going to be the same. Time to move on before you get more attached and a break up hurts more or even worse a betrayal.
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Heart breaking as it may be, it’s time to move on. U must find solace in the fact that it happened earlier on in the relationship. Don’t let him take the upper hand. just take a pinch of salt and tell him ur wishes…if he isn’t willing, say adios to his face. All the best.
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