How do you Keep Men Interested in You ?
WHY would he say, he is busy and had to sleep early to bed and you find out he is online with chat friends and he wouldn’t want to talk to you. He would only talk to you on the weekend to ask you for cybersex. Does he really care for you.
| want to Understand a Man’s Mind…. help me pls.
i hate to say this, but honestly, i think he’s taking you for granted, and my guess is that it’s not your fault. i’m assuming that you used to have a healthy two-sided relationship and that you use the time you spend with him to treat him right, to show an interest in his life, and to be honest with him about how you feel and what you want.
maybe he wants to break up with you but doesn’t have the spine to take responsibility for his feelings and instead is treating you poorly in hopes that you’ll end it and move on. there are endless possible explanations, really, but i don’t think it’s very important to figure out which one is correct. the bottom line is that he’s taking you for granted, isn’t fulfilling your needs, and isn’t giving you an opportunity to fulfill his needs.
my advice is that you should confront him. tell him that care about him, and that you enjoy the time you spend with him, and that you want to make him happy, but that you feel taken for granted and shut out of his life and want to know how he feels and what his motivations are. maybe he’ll open up and you can work on things together. if he doesn’t, though, my advice is that you should move on. no one deserves to be treated dishonestly and with disregard.
good luck!
If you have to ask, you’ll never know.
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no he doesn’t care…
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Honey, you answered your own question. He only wants to talk to you on the weekends for cybersex. Basically he is USING you. If you don’t like it, stop talking to him. He sounds like a loser anyway. Time to move on. You deserve better.
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no he doesn’t care about you.
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we all want private time, and we all want to see inside our lover’s mind.
spying on his activities on the internet though?
tut tut tut.
that’s no way to see inside his mind.
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If I found out the guy I was interested in, wasn’t very interested in me, then I would just blow it off. It really is such a waste of time. Especially when you caught him lying to you. I’ve been in that situation where I’ve caught him lying and I actually F’d with him later on. I don’t regret it, but I’m not recommending you do anything – but just don’t bother anymore. He’s just not that in to you.
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Obviously, you are good at cybersex and that’s all he wants you for. I’m sorry. But on the plus side, you are good at it.
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"busy" means I’m not into you…. sorry.
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Not to be Fuc ^, He probably thinks your more hotter online. Wear something hot out side and under next time for him.
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play hard to get
right now your playing easy to get with him and he is taking u for granted he knows u will be there when he wants to just cyber with u
if i were u i wouldn’t talk to him no more just taking him off your friends list and ignore him
you’ll find better friends
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That’s a lofty goal….but I doubt any woman truly understands a man’s mind. It’d drive you crazy trying to do so. This particular guy sounds like a jerk–plain and simple. He probably doesn’t care or value any woman. I’d suggest you drop the idea of trying to get closer to him. You already know that he’s willing to be evasive and dishonest. I’m not sure what cybersex really is….but I’m sure there’s plently of fish in the sea. He doesn’t respect you–don’t respect him. Forget you ever met him and move on….quickly. good luck
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Take a second to mentally "step out of this relationship" look at it from a distance as if you were someone on the outside looking in, then answer the question as if it were your best friend asking you. Or… fight fire with fire and see if he can take his own medicine. Good luck, I encourage you not to waste your time trying to create a good relationship, the good ones fall into your lap… just wait for it:)
And vote vote vote… people have devoted thier lives to give us the chance to vote:
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in my opinion he doesn’t care it seems you’re Just a medium to fulfill his hobbies..cant judge though
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i hate to say this, but honestly, i think he’s taking you for granted, and my guess is that it’s not your fault. i’m assuming that you used to have a healthy two-sided relationship and that you use the time you spend with him to treat him right, to show an interest in his life, and to be honest with him about how you feel and what you want.
maybe he wants to break up with you but doesn’t have the spine to take responsibility for his feelings and instead is treating you poorly in hopes that you’ll end it and move on. there are endless possible explanations, really, but i don’t think it’s very important to figure out which one is correct. the bottom line is that he’s taking you for granted, isn’t fulfilling your needs, and isn’t giving you an opportunity to fulfill his needs.
my advice is that you should confront him. tell him that care about him, and that you enjoy the time you spend with him, and that you want to make him happy, but that you feel taken for granted and shut out of his life and want to know how he feels and what his motivations are. maybe he’ll open up and you can work on things together. if he doesn’t, though, my advice is that you should move on. no one deserves to be treated dishonestly and with disregard.
good luck!
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I am sorry that you are being treated this way it’s just not right, you do deserve better.
If you want to learn a few tricks and some common sence read love tactics how to win the one you want by Thomas W Mcknight & Robert H Phillips.
Whilst this book may not get you this man it will certainly teach you some strategies and you will become more confident.
Good Luck!
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