How can I keep a man interested after we’ve slept together?

I want to sleep with someone but I don’t know him that well. I don’t want him to just dump me after we sleep together.

Think about it; you DON’T know him well enough to know if he will dump you after sleeping with him, you DON’T need to be sleeping with him!
Interest won’t happen if you give in so quickly, if he isn’t willig to wait, he is NOT worth your time! believe me, you will be happier IF you wait.

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20 Responses to “How can I keep a man interested after we’ve slept together?”

  1. Kaysee says:

    keep sleeping together?
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  2. Rich Z says:

    If you don’t know him that well why do you want to sleep with him? He is sure to dump you afterwards and find the next easy one (and pass your name along to anyone else looking for an easy one).
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  3. Putt says:

    Well then,make it an unforgettable experience & he won’t forget you!
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  4. nanny2 says:

    Then get to know him alot better first.
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  5. chuck w says:

    hi mama,

    after i’ve had sex with a woman, i stay very interested. who are you hangin’ wit? stay away from those players.

    el tiburon enojado
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  6. Hi T says:

    They will dump you or they won’t. I’ve been dumped and I’ve been not dumped. It depends on the guy. Just make sure he doesn’t give you a disease and that you don’t get pregnant.

    Easy, right?
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  7. Wiseguy says:

    Be sweet not to needy, dont nag when he dosent call the next day give it 3 for the best affect and say do u wanna hang out later, give 100% non drunk effort sex so he wants more of u
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  8. the sponge says:

    Get to know him well, geez whats so hard about that? why would u even think about sleeping with someone who dont know really well anyway? Thats to me kinda strange. But i suggest i find a place to look for honest men like a church or something just me.
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  9. crazy 4 somethin’ real says:

    well keep doing it
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  10. classychris says:

    most guys move on after they killed their game
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    sad but true

  11. walterhawthorneiii says:

    Think about it; you DON’T know him well enough to know if he will dump you after sleeping with him, you DON’T need to be sleeping with him!
    Interest won’t happen if you give in so quickly, if he isn’t willig to wait, he is NOT worth your time! believe me, you will be happier IF you wait.
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    28 YEARS of wisdom as a sexually active male. been on both of sides, ‘booty calls’. Used EVERY line and can’t remember the names of those I ‘one-nighted’ because I JUST DID NOT CARE! I care now, but that is because I am mature and married!

  12. chris c says:

    is that all he wants from you .. if not . you both might start something
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  13. Jenny E says:

    First of all – what are your priorities, what do you want more, to date him or to have sex with him? If you want sex more than a relationship, then it shouldn’t matter if you have sex and he leaves you, because its all about the sex. Now in that regards, if you go in there not caring so much because your number one priority is the same as sex, and he likes it, there’s no reason for him to stop seeing you.

    If your priority is to have a relationship, then cultivate that first. Make sure he wants you as a person before you give him your body. That can take a couple of dates, or it can take months… its your choice.

    Good luck!
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  14. Frogmama says:

    You can’t! Having babies doesn’t keep a man either!
    What ever happened to waiting until the man shows intrest in you & makes a decent proposal?
    I don’t care what society has put forth,it is still bad to be a whore!
    Everyone wants someone they can trust to stay faithful,but all are screwing around all the time! It is crazy! Why do you think there are diseases running rampant?
    If you have no self control or morals,you better get some before it is too late!
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  15. nate says:

    do himhand job first time b*low j*ob second then if you t*its are big enouf let him put it there then the a*ss then all the way then after that let him choose
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  16. t. says:

    Yeah, getting dumped would be pretty hard.

    So…

    Why don’t you wait until you know him better? You don’t have to sleep with someone so that he’ll like you better.

    If he chooses not to be interested in you because there’s no "action", that’s his problem. You’re better off without him.

    If he’s a good guy, get to know him. Then, after the relationship has deepened, you won’t have to worry about keeping him interested. He’ll want to be with you because … you’re you!

    (You are the prize.)

    Good luck!
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  17. Jesse&Jury says:

    keep sleeping with him
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  18. miaRules says:

    get to know him first. Men rarely respect or want to stay with people that put out easily.
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  19. bibus73 says:

    It would be preferred if you learn more about the man before you will sleep together. Probability of him dumping you is great if you do not develop common interests before having sex..
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  20. cobrasnake says:

    This is a really good question.Men sometimes,like to sleep with a woman, and after they go to sleep with other,and on and on.sometimes they do not care about the lady,they have only interest in have sex and that is all they want.My advice is :Before you even thinking to sleep with a man,know him very well,before you have a bad experience or get disappointment. Try to know him very well first,before you go to sleep with him.Good luck.
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