What would make my girlfriend tell me about an affair she had over 12 years ago?
Is she trying to cleanse it from herself? She had an affair with a coworker, and she was dating a guy for nearly ten years at the time.
I guess she wanted to be upfront and honest with you so your relationship would be completely open. Ask her why she felt she had to tell you……..geez we don’t know
Guilty feelings????????????????????
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I guess she wanted to be upfront and honest with you so your relationship would be completely open. Ask her why she felt she had to tell you……..geez we don’t know
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WHO CARES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT WAS 12 YEARS AGO. Or maybe shes letting you know she may eventually cheat on you. BEWARE, once a cheater always a cheater, you will never be able to trust her because of this.
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She must feel she has to confess to you so it is all out in the open. Some people think this is total honesty even though it was before you were even in the picture and has no bearing on your relationship.
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i would say that something happened to her that brought that memory back to her again.
because there’s no other reason someone would come clean about something that happened so long ago and did not had to do anything with you.
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maybe she trusts you enough to tell you and that she wants you to know her past because she loves you and doesn’t want to hide such significant things in her past from you…
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I’d have to say she feels like she must tell someone just to get it off her conscience. Even if she did not come across as "sorry" for what she did when telling you the story.
I hope you are good enough friends that you told her she made a bad choice back then and she needs to make better choices in the future.
Sometimes we all need a friend to share are mistakes with and get good advice, even if that includes a slap on the wrist.
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she has a schlong
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Somehow I get the feeling that if she DOES end up telling you, that you will begin feeling insecurity in the relationship. And maybe even some day accuse her of acting strange/cheating.So don’t worry about it! As they say in spanish Lo Que Paso, Paso! meaning what happened already happened! So forget about it and enjoy you relationship like never before.
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